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July 11, 2019 at 9:56 pm #756852
the girl ive been in an open relationship with, just went on a date with another guy yesterday and i broke up with her over it, because i didn’t wanna be hurt in the future, knowing that i was developing strong feelings for her and she did not want to be exclusive when i asked.
i know she liked me and treated me genuinely. i think she’s a bit hurt over it as i am.
did i do the right thing?July 11, 2019 at 10:01 pm #756853
You ask this similar question a little while ago…
You’re going to get the same answers now that you got last time.July 11, 2019 at 10:52 pm #756854
@Raven called it. Two words: Open. Relationship. Which means you are seeing/sleeping with more than one person. If you had to break up over developing the feels and getting jealous of her being with someone else, then you are monogamous and can’t handle polyamory. Don’t get yourself into this situation again.July 12, 2019 at 3:28 am #756861
Yes you did the right thing Open relationships aren’t for everyone . Move on and you will meet a chick who is only interested in you.July 12, 2019 at 6:10 am #756866
Does it matter that we’ve been dating only for a month and she said recently she needs space to figure out how she feels about me?July 12, 2019 at 9:06 am #756873
Better off single
No. Lol. She just doesn’t want to deal with a break up hoping you get the hint and just move on. She will just keep leading you on in case it doesn’t work out with this other fella.
Suck up your pride and find a girl who actualy wants you back.July 12, 2019 at 9:18 am #756874
If I remember your other thread, she’s bisexual and polyamorous, right? You asked her for a monogamous relationship and she turned you down?
Yes, you did the right thing by ending it with her. This isn’t going anywhere and you will only get hurt if you continue involvement with her. If you want a monogamous relationship and she does not, you’re setting yourself up for a lot of pain if you continue.
I’ll add, if she “needs space” after a month, she’s not that into you. If she had serious feelings for you she’d be deep in the honeymoon period and crazy about you right now. No one “needs space” after 1 month with someone they have genuine feelings for. I’m sure she likes you well enough and probably wants to keep you on the hook if possible, but she’s made it clear she doesn’t want anything monogamous with you.July 12, 2019 at 9:24 am #756876
“if she “needs space” after a month, she’s not that into you. If she had serious feelings for you she’d be deep in the honeymoon period and crazy about you right now. No one “needs space” after 1 month with someone they have genuine feelings for”
AMEN Liz Lemon! Only reason she needs space is to see other people!! This was going nowhere fast. Find a girl who wants to be exclusive with you.July 12, 2019 at 10:27 am #756883
Better off single
So if you’re unsure about it, you use “the space” and move on because this chick is just playing mind games with you. Maybe wear a nasa tshirt as a sign in case you happen to see her around town or make an appearance on tv or something. Maybe she will take the hint before it’s too late.July 12, 2019 at 2:04 pm #756884
A one month open relationship? Hysterical.