I was at a party with my guy friend and we flirt alot. We both had a few drinks and he sat me down and told me how strong and awesome of a person I am. He told me if I want to talk to him to just do it. While he did this he grabbed my hand and held it in his. Then he pointed out that I was too nervous to grip his hand back. He held my hand the whole time. He helped me up and held my hand after I was up. He told me I m family because our siblings are married. He also told me the guy I went on a date with is a douche. So was he being flirty?