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Sensy.
Tonya
Ended it with my BF of 2 yrs. He was hot & cold, disappearing, then coming back. I had enough of the rollercoaster ride. He didn’t appear to be too upset and said “if that’s what you want”. Sounded like he didn’t care anyway so I thought it would be a breeze to end things.
Well now after a month he’s popping up out of no where “bumping into me”. I talk to be polite but dont offer much info.
Every 2 weeks he’s showing up trying to chit chat. Only thing is that it makes me think about him a lot when I’m trying get over the guy.
I don’t want to be friends as it keeps me emotionally tied to him. He knows it’s over, why is he doing this? I cant seen to move on now.
Raven
Like stalking you?
Tonya
Well he seems to know my schedule at times. Like the coffee shop I go to before work each day and the other convenience store I buy my paper at after working out.
Raven
Change your schedule…
Confront him, What do You want?!
Anne
As raven said…change your routine. Change gym, go to a different store for the paper etc.
Tonya
He knows where I work. Yesterday I left at my usual time. Walking a block later he comes out of an ice cream store. He said ” fancy seeing you all of a sudden”. He had a big smile on his face. I ask what he wants and he just replies “to say hi”.
Him popping up frequently is getting irritating. I cant change my hours at work due to a big project at the moment.
Hes getting a big kick out of it – but I’m not!
Sensy
I think he is doing this because he wants control over you. Make it loud and clear to him that he needs to leave you alone.
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