I’ve always felt that if you want to get laid, get laid – but before you do, realize that it’s just a f*ck. It doesn’t mean that he wants to get back into a relationship with you. You’re convenient. Make sure that he’s a convenience for you, too.
In my case, even though the relationship was always just about sex, the guy had pissed me off beyond the point of no return, so it wasn’t hard to decline his request.
I don’t mean to seem harsh with you. I just don’t want a romantic daydream to drop you into an abyss if he doesn’t fall down on one knee and say, “Babe, I’m so sorry we broke up. I’ve thought of nothing but you and I love no one but you. Please – hop up behind me on my silver steed and we’ll ride off into the beautiful, vivid sunset together and live happily ever after!”
Whatever you decide, let it be what YOU want to do – not something you do because you think that it’ll make someone else look at you in a different way.
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