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Raven.
Confused
I was with my ex for a year and we split six weeks back. We had broken up earlier in the te are too for around 6 weeks and got back together then. We have always been amicable and no nastiness ever.
We decided to remain friends and we both attended the same function lately. I stayed as his Ashe was local, and we slept in his bed. He didn’t make a move on me, we didn’t even cuddle but remained in close proximity ie we didn’t turn away from each other etc. I told him before we shared not to try anything, but I was hoping he actually would and I’m feeling unattractive to him now, which hurts a lot.
Why would he suggest we slept in the same bed and him not on the sofa? And why didn’t he in reality try something on? He actually ruffled my hair and kissed me on the forehead today good night.
Raven
He wanted You to make the move & then ‘Hello FWB”
You can not be friends with someone you have feelings for & you should not be having slumber parties with ex’s…
Sophia
Or Hello ONS and his conscience is clean because you initiated it. Agree with Raven. No More Slumber Parties!
Liz Lemon
You told him not to try anything, he 100% respected your wishes, and now you’re complaining about it?
Confused
I guess I actually wanted him to try something anyway? I’m surprised he didn’t and feel rejected. Why does he want a friendship ?
Raven
Why would you settle for ‘friendship?’
Confused
Good question. There is a couple of things I suppose. Firstly we share friends so will see each other there’s no getting out of that, and that includes social stuff. Secondly, I suppose I’m hoping it’ll potentially turn into more again in time or I’ll get my head around it to a degree where by it won’t matter if it doesn’t, as I can’t have no contact because of our social situation
Raven
You can manage your social interactions & friends…
What happens when you’re in your friends group & he brings a date …?
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