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    Jess

    Hi all

    Not sure why I’m writing this as I know there are a lot of people who throw out hurtful comments etc but here goes…so I’ll be 40 this year. I have kept myself in good shape and don’t look my age. I am a home owner and own a small business. I have made some really bad choices in men pretty much all my dating life. I’ve had a physical abusive man, and mainly bullies or manipulators. The last guy I was seeing still had a key to his (ex) wife’s house and spent Christmas there with her and his kids. So I ended it as there were a lot more episodes like that during our 9 month relationship. So here I am, alone again. I am on various dating sites but find it SO hard to even see a man I find attractive. I have it in my head no one will want a woman of 40 who doesn’t want kids. If I meet a man without kids, he’s gona want some and the others who match for me have a small football team. The ex keeps contacting me and sometimes when I’m feeling lonely, I really miss him. :-(

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    anon

    missing someone when lonely is the wrong reason to be with them. had you said you loved him and you missed him terribly and he’s the right man for you, you’re willing to meet him halfway and resolve your issues, i would have said talk to him and maybe you can come to an agreement on issues. missing him when lonely…. he’s not the right man for you

    i’m 43 and the majority of men out there doesn’t want small children, because they have already raised theirs and doesn’t want to raise anymore. not having children proably counts in you favor with most men

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