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Beth.
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I also want to emphasis you do need to let him go, how hard as it is. youre ready to find a new partner, maybe not now, but soon and you can use a clear head for that
Ss
So sorry you didn’t get the answer you wanted from him but at least you asked and he responded honestly. Walk away from him now and take some time to heal. Sending inadequate Internet (((hugs))) xx
Liz Lemon
Ditto to what the others have said. It hurts, but what you did was necessary. And it took guts. You freed yourself from a dead end situation. Imagine if you had continued getting more attached, or brought your kids into it. So you absolutely should be proud of yourself for taking that step.
Allow yourself time to grieve. I agree with what’s been said about having no contact with him, at least for awhile. You need a clean break to put all this behind you. Sending virtual hugs.
Caetru
I’ve been following your posts and hoping that your story would have a fairytale ending. I’m sorry that you are hurting, but those feelings won’t last forever. Take time to yourself and reflect on who you are and what you really envision for you and your kid’s future. You are not dumb, it sounds like you both handled the situation and a very mature and respectful way. You deserve a man who is going to be all in with no doubts!
Tallspicy
I am so sorry!!! Hugs and icecream.
AngieBaby
I would also like to say, please don’t beat on yourself for this. You got into this thinking you were cool with casual and things changed. Next time you’ll know not to do that or ask a lot sooner. You are not dumb at all. You did nothing wrong. You’re living your life, learning as you go, just like all of us.
T from NY
Oh thinking of you darlin. We’ve definitely all been there and we know how much it hurts. Damn good job being authentic with YOURSELF, first and foremost, and with him.
Tend to you. Do NOT beat yourself up. Wishing you well
Raven
Sorry Hunny…
Beth
Queenie you are me and I am you, I just have 15 years on you. I commend you for getting out. I didn’t, and I have paid a pretty heavy price with my emotional health after 20+ years. I think you have read my posts abt situation. I clearly suck at choosing men and worse at dating. My emotionally unavailable man is still here and honestly i don’t know why. Just tonight we spoke for a couple of hours. I won’t see him privately until next weekend….. maybe still trying to decide. I don’t know what the hell this man has I find so endearing. I think it is wearing thin for me. I am still figuring it out.
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