I matched with a guy on Bumble who i met IRL about 6 months ago. Haven’t seen him in awhile, not like close friends, more like acquaintances. Think he’s cute, not sure what he thinks about me. I don’t want to be OVERLY flirtatious but obviously i have to send the first message. WHAT DO I SEND?
Under what circumstances did you meet him 6 months ago? If I were in your shoes, I’d send a light and friendly message about your IRL meeting. Refer to the place or the circumstances where you met- something he can easily reply to. It will jar his memory also so that he remembers who you are.
At least you’ve met in person..that way if you do meet up, it will be less awkward and you’ll have something to talk about. Also a common interest (softball)…I would just say hey how are you with a smiley face or something. And you could mention the softball thing if you want. I’m sure he remembers you and you know he’s attracted to you because you matched!