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    I matched with a guy on Bumble who i met IRL about 6 months ago. Haven’t seen him in awhile, not like close friends, more like acquaintances. Think he’s cute, not sure what he thinks about me. I don’t want to be OVERLY flirtatious but obviously i have to send the first message. WHAT DO I SEND?

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    Better off single

    Google it.

    Or instantly ask him to meet up?

    Hey you’re handsome, wanna meet up at _ place at _ time?

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    Liz Lemon

    Under what circumstances did you meet him 6 months ago? If I were in your shoes, I’d send a light and friendly message about your IRL meeting. Refer to the place or the circumstances where you met- something he can easily reply to. It will jar his memory also so that he remembers who you are.

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    Played adult coed softball together!! Hung out as a group outside of softball two or three times. Good idea.

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    At least you’ve met in person..that way if you do meet up, it will be less awkward and you’ll have something to talk about. Also a common interest (softball)…I would just say hey how are you with a smiley face or something. And you could mention the softball thing if you want. I’m sure he remembers you and you know he’s attracted to you because you matched!

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