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September 15, 2019 at 8:07 am #773040
My ex and I have been broken up for a few weeks. Last year, he emotionally cheated. He talked to a few different women… asked one to see her naked in the shower and other inappropriate things like that. Despite being apologetic at the time, we never saw it quite the same. He knew he did wrong though. That’s something I forgave him on. He deleted said girls and we moved forward. Since our breakup 3 weeks ago, he has since added them back. I have had zero contact with him since, but have seen him online. While he is now blocked, seeing that was a blow. Yes, he is single and can do as he please. But I don’t know what to feel about it. Is it acting out in some spiteful way? Is he feeling insecure and hurt so he needs that validation again? I can’t help but feel disrespected and discarded.September 15, 2019 at 8:17 am #773041
Hes an A-hole. He doesn’t care about you.
It could be spiteful – but IMO he’s doing it for 1 reason only – attention.September 15, 2019 at 9:07 am #773053
Hmmm. Well it did and definitely hurts. Best that I keep moving forward in radio silence. And for own good, keep him blocked so I don’t see his jerk behavior.September 15, 2019 at 9:07 am #773054
Hmmm. Well it did and definitely hurts. Best that I keep moving forward in radio silence. And for my own good, keep him blocked so I don’t see his jerk behavior.September 15, 2019 at 9:33 am #773056
I feel that both you leah and Alex are in the same boat in a way that you were dealing with boys who like to play on and dont have the balls to break up to keep you on a backburner. I dont have much to say about it except its not a real loss to say bye to a boy who wasnt a serious prospect anyway. enjoy being single and only go for guys who are matured in a sense that they really like to have a partner and who doesnt keep you questioning if he chats to girls etc. They are there. Take care healing to both of youSeptember 15, 2019 at 10:15 am #773058
I’d say he’s proving his low-worth, but truths like these are a great hand-on-hot-stove lesson to stop stalking an ex, because what you find will either hurt or ellicit sympathy/regret. And both are a lose-lose if you want to truly move onSeptember 15, 2019 at 10:59 am #773063
Yup, only proving who he is, running straight back to his naked pictures source. Of course, he’s free to do it now, but this is not how a mature man starts a serious relationship and I’m sure that those girls see right through him (first some sexting, then out of the blue they are suddenly blocked, now out of the blue he is suddenly back – who engages with that?)September 15, 2019 at 11:11 am #773064
He’s not going to get into a relationship with any of them. He used them for pictures and fun and is going back to that now I’m out of the picture. Whether that is out of hurt, anger, spite, loneliness… I don’t know. But it was a conscious decision and yes, I agree that it shows lack of character. I care for him so it does hurt. But yes, subjecting myself to more hurt is not going to be beneficial in moving forward.