Mostly just to vent, I've given up


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    Lila

    I feel like I’ve reached my capacity for heartbreak. Just too many situations that have chipped away at my hope and faith in people. I’ve become more and more cynical and bitter. I just don’t see an end to this cycle, I’ve been single for so long, and I’m at the point of believing that it’s just not going to happen for me. I have plenty going on in my life and tons of passions and pursuits. So I wouldn’t mind resigning to a life without love so much if it weren’t for the lack of physical touch and intimacy. I’m not one for casual sex, so that’s not an option. And it’s not all about the sex anyway, I want someone to hold and caress…

    How can you turn off such an innate desire for companionship and physical touch? I feel like it’s the only way for me to be able to accept a life alone.

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    Gillian F

    How old are you if you don’t mind me asking?

    And how long did your previous relationships lasted?

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    mg

    You have to hang in there. I met someone online. He was legit and then his ex came back, which is the typical story. He was with her for 5 years and they broke it off because he would not get married. That was 2 years ago apparently. We had fun on the first date. Agreed on a second: 2 weeks from our first date. (Suspicious because I felt he was already trying to mend things with her) (This was recent.) He was Greek and I am greek. We had strong physical and emotional chemistry. It took him a week to decide between the both of us. I knew he would choose her with 5 years under his belt with her. She left him. Then, after we meet, she decides to show up. I blew it and went off the deep end with the clingy. Today is day 1 of no contact. Do you think it will last with them? He wanted to be friends and I blew all chances of even that when I went clingy on him. Any chances of getting him back? Day 1 of getting off the radar begins today. Any insight? Will it work out for them? Will he come back?

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