Last minute cancellation

It is hard to trust you communicate or date from online dating app. They play games that women never do. This guy is not even cute and I thought if I date an ok guy, it could be worth my time. I felt disappointed but he got my revenge right away-cut him off without texting him back.

Gawd I hate the apps!! I’ve had more men than I can count either pursue me before meeting, then flake, or literally take me out, it goes well, they text me AFTER asking me out again, then never follow through. It’s just obnoxious. And you’ll hear from others, and even from me in the past, that women shouldn’t be invested early, that we need to be light hearted about it all, and knowing a man’s character takes months (if not years), and this is all TRUE! But damn if it’s not all exhausting. And it was near impossible to meet men in real life before the pandemic (depending on where you lived), now it’s literally almost not an option. So the thing I can say is – take deep breaths, have a laugh as much as you can about the silly ones, remind yourself to be grateful you didn’t meet up with an attractive, accomplished gentleman who was using you to stroke his own ego because he was all-the-while secretly still hung up on his ex. And get used to stillness and lack. Knowing you have everything you need inside you anyway, and when a (good) man comes along it will be a bonus.