Is my husband just using me and cheating on me?


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    Tori

    My husband has been falsely accusing me of cheating. It happened suddenly and took me by surprise when he started yelling and me and calling me names in the middle of the night that I had a dating profile and I was cheating on him. He’d have angry outbursts and always seemed upset with me no matter what I tried to do to please him. He would go off on me for the slightest thing or nothing at all. He’d take my card and car and disappear to st night then start again. Well I decided to look in his phone and found him on dating sites with profiles. It didn’t seem to phase him when I confronted him about it. He got violent taking my car and damaging things. Well this would keep on and escalate to me eventually having to call the police multiple times until he finally was arrested and sentenced for domestic violence. All the while I kept finding him talking to other girls and acting single even when as far as showing off his privates on a dating profile and describing the type of girl he was in to while we are still married. He’d deny his kids but would mention that it was possible he had another kid with his ex they hadn’t seen each other in years at this point and I thought it odd he’d say that after ten long years but come to find out the kid was never his. He has been unemployed for three years and I did everything while he still accused me of cheating and even went as far as trying to frame me. He’s lied to me a lot. And now he’s in jail and he is telling me that he sees his mistakes and plans to change and I don’t know if he actually means it or it’s just a way for me to put money on his books till he gets out and finally hurts and ditches me for the last time. I don’t know why the mixed signals and behavior and I want to think he’s using me but at the same time what if he means it. I’m so confused and would like some advice

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    Newbie

    What sort of advice do you feel you need? To me its clear you should make a plan to divorce this guy and remove him from your life. Only question for me is: do you still want him in your kids life?

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    Raven

    Goes to jail for domestic violence, finds Jesus!

    #836237 Reply
    Gaia

    Cut this man out of your life. Run! You put him in jail for domestic violence. It will not get better. His true colors have shown. Saying he has changed is just a manipulation tactic. Please, make a plan to escape. Go to therapy. Your local women’s resource center can help you with making a plan to divorce and get away from this toxic relationship. I speak from experience. It will get worse before it gets better but I promise you once you cut this man out of your life you will feel relief and start to heal.

    #836260 Reply
    redcurleysue

    Do you want someone who loves you? Do you beat your friends? What if your friend smacked you around – would you stay friends? Get away from this man.

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