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    Dumped my ex 6 months ago and we have texted hi how’s it going here and there. No getting together or talking on the phone.

    Lately he has been popping in by text and acting weird. Saying things like he loves me, I am beautiful, sexy and other things. He knows I don’t like certain crass words and also I hate it when he won’t respond immediately. Well he has been saying crass words, and being extremely erratic with the texting, replying to some not others. I know he is an ex and all but wondering why he is doing all this. We didn’t break up on bad terms really, it was just that he didn’t want to commit to one woman.

    Is this some sort of subtle revenge? Doing stuff he knows I don’t like? He hasn’t asked to meet up or talk on the phone, or get back together.

    Is this just all in my head?

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    Amanda Rocks

    It sounds like hes flirting with you and when you dont respond he is swiftly moving onto the next. Why do you still give him the time of day anyway ? i would forget about him and it will be easier to move on. x

    #583707 Reply

    Been there done that

    Or he wants to reconcile. Or he is an attention seeker. My ex BF has started sending me texts like that too and the reason of breakup was the same, didn’t want to commit to one girl and didn’t know what he wants. Now he says, I thought grass is greener on the other end but it isn’t really. But you know what, if they can leave you once they can leave you the second time as well. Keep ignoring his texts that’s what I’ve been doing and keep focusing on your life.

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    In all honesty it sounds like he’s drunk or messed up. I would just cut him off. This is a total waste of time.

    He isn’t making any attempt to reconcile or see you. He’s entertaining himself and getting an ego stroke. That’s all.

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    For some guys talking to them means to them that they still have you. In their mind they’d like to think that they can whistle and you’d come running. I noticed that in the past several years a reply back increased in value exponentially. Like student loans. In the past people could talk and even call each other to check in on each other and neither party would think much of it. It was normal. People are people. We are part of each other’s lives. But these days OMG. Everything is about power and ego. The young generation has very poor manners in general, low social and communications skills. When this is combined with texting and instant messaging the whole thing becomes a nuisance. I think your guy is one of those.

    You can either stop replying and paying attention to him or you can tell him that you don’t care to continue this way. If he wants to talk and say something then he should be a man enough to do that. But I think it won’t make a difference.

    I can see why it is very annoying but do not encourage him by being engaged in this silly game. Stop and forget.

    #583749 Reply


    To me, it feels like a game for him. I started wondering when he said he loved me, then I replied saying I love him and I was worried he would slip away again. After that, stone silence from him. not even a cricket!

    This actually feels like emotional abuse concocted primarily for his entertainment. Thanks guys for all your input.

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    If you don’t care about him why do you post?

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    lawrence mcdonald

    Revenge Your Ex

    Each day hundreds of men and women seek revenge on their ex-mates for a
    variety of reasons, usually because they got dumped or where cheated on.
    Revenge comes in many ways. It typically starts by using social media to
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    So what is the best way to get revenge besides slashing her tires, posting
    nude photos of her and so on.

    The best way according to the web site Right Choices 101 is to live your
    life well. This is true no matter who you are seeking revenge on. Coworkers,
    past bosses, bad friends or ex-lovers. Put your energy into succeeding and
    enjoying your life, not wasting your time, energy and resources on revenge
    that can end up costing you much more. Plus, when you seek revenge, you send
    them a massage that you have not gotten over the relationship. It’s much
    better to show you are indifferent and don’t care.

    According to Kenneth Agee of A Foreign Affair, a service that specializes in
    helping men find young beautiful foreign women, “The best revenge is to date
    or marry a women 10 years younger than your ex. This will piss her off to no
    end. No woman ever wants to be replaced with a younger, more attractive
    woman. Just like a man never likes to get replaced by a guy who is wealthier
    or more successful.

    I will never forget one of my first clients we took to Saint Petersburg,
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    than two years of therapy. Having hundreds of attractive women fighting over
    you gets your ex out of your mind pretty quick.

    I personally went through break up when my ex ran off with another man. But
    a short time later, I met a new lady who was ten times better. I ran into
    that man who stole my ex and I gave him a big thanks. In fact, I could not
    thank him enough. He was stuck with an older nagging women, while I was now
    with a young, beautiful, caring women. Plus, my ex had gained about 100
    pounds. I don’t look at that fellow as any kind of enemy but as the person
    who saved me from my ex and years of suffering.” This is the best a revenge
    when you win without lowering yourself.

    Other sites like “Get Over Her Now” give practical advice and tips for
    getting over a past relationship.

    Top Tips from Get Over Her Now:

    Start making platonic relationships with as many women as possible, old,
    young, skinny, fat, cute or ugly. This greatly helps you get back in the
    game of socializing with the opposite sex. And it opens up lots
    opportunities to meet their cute attractive friends in a more relaxed
    environment. This also helps you build your game and confidence.

    Improve yourself, start working out, get up early every day and exercise.

    Buy new clothes. Dressing better makes you feel better and improves your

    Focus on work and getting a promotion or raise. Don’t let a break up effect
    your work negatively. Put that extra effort into work and it will pay off
    with a better position and more money. This will also build your confidence
    and help attract better quality women.

    Any time you are depressed, improving yourself helps greatly. When you feel
    depressed, don’t sit and watch TV and then sleep-in late. Get out and do
    something that will make you feel like you’ve accomplished something. Take a
    class, go hiking, fix something you’ve been putting off.

    Don’t start drinking. Drinking will always have a negative impact on your
    life. Don’t drink while depressed or when you are trying to get over some
    one. After all, drinking is for celebrating. So if you are not celebrating
    something, don’t drink. A quality women is not going to be attracted to
    someone who drinks a lot or has a drinking problem.

    Don’t sleep in; sleeping late increases depression. Get up as early as you
    can and go for a walk, take a hike, or go to the Gym. Research shows getting
    up early and exercising can eliminate depression. You will have no game be

    Don’t binge eat. If you start gaining weight, you will feel less self-worth
    and lose your confidence. Confidence is a quality that women are extremely
    attracted to.

    Conclusion, the best revenge is when you improve your life so well that she
    realizes she made a big mistake. And satisfaction comes when you meet
    someone so much better, you are glad the ex is gone. After all, if you are
    seeking revenge, how great could she really have been in the first place!

    #585736 Reply


    Lawrence, not again. Find something else to do. Stop pasting those silly articles.

    #652418 Reply

    mark green

    Trump Brings Prestige to the Mail Order Bride Industry.

    For years, International Marriage Services had to live with the stigma of being referred to as Mail Order Bride services. However, many consider the term “mail-order bride” derogatory and feel it demeans foreign women by comparing them to commodities for sale and falsely implying that (unlike local women), they exercise no judgment over the men they meet and would marry anyone from a relatively wealthy country. Even with the foreign women being labeled as mail order brides these companies have grown in popularity for the past two decades, largely due to the internet. The industry grew at such a fast pace it caught the attention of the US senator Maria Cantwell of Washington State, who in 2006 she pushed a bill through congress known as IMBRA or International Marriage Brokers Regulation Act. Although the intent of Senator Cantwell was clearly meant to put Foreign Bride Companies out of business by severely restricting how men communicate with foreign women. In the end, the companies flourished under the new regulations as these business quickly modified their business models.

    Kenneth Agee, marketing Director for A Foreign Affair one of the largest so called Mail Order Bride Companies says, “We have always had to overcome this label. Since Trump announced his candidacy for president of the United States, the industry saw a significant increase in upscale business men looking for foreign brides. Once he became president, Trump made it the new status symbol of success to be married to an eastern European women. With First Lady Melanie Trump in the White House, opinions about foreign women have dramatically changed. Once men were scorned upon to be married to a women from Russian or the Ukraine, now is seen as prestigious. And we are seeing huge increase of men seeking foreign brides, our client base is up by more than 200% since Trump has taken office. This month alone we will be taking over 100 American men to the Ukraine, mostly very successful executives.” Beside online matchmaking, the company arranges group tours for men that will travel to countries throughout the world. During these tours the men will meet hundreds of pre-screened women during what A Foreign Affair calls “Social Events” or what Kenneth calls speed dating on steroids.

    Critics say these women are just used as arm trophies for business men in America. That men take advantage of the women’s circumstances, both economical and geographical. Kenneth argues, “I would hardly say Melanie Trump has been taken advantage of or refer her to as a Mail Order Bride. Women choose just like the men choose, we are all adults and are responsible for our own choices. It is just that men in America have a good reputation for the way we treat women and how we take care of our families. This opens the door to the men to meet some of the most beautiful women in the world.”

    Trump is not the only high profile person to marry a foreign women, Jeb Bush met his wife in Mexico. Rupert Murdoch former CEO of Fox News married Wendi Deng from China, and the list goes on.

    If Trump accomplishes nothing else during his presidency he has clearly helped one Industry.

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