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July 31, 2019 at 12:25 pm #758613
I need help getting my ex back. i’m in love with him and want to be with him. i want to do something sweet for him but not be like stalkerish lol. can someone help me?July 31, 2019 at 12:30 pm #758615
The best way to get your ex back is to move on completely. Think about yourself, have fun, visit friends, get a new haircut and go on dates when you feel ready. Just when you think you are over him, he will pop up. But by then you may have figured out you dont want him back and your life is fine without an ex who didnt want to be with you. So do all the sweet things for you. Love yourself firstJuly 31, 2019 at 3:39 pm #758633
Ex is an ex for a reason – I firmly believe if it didnt work 1st time – it wont work a 2nd.August 8, 2019 at 9:13 am #759529
How long has it been since you and your ex broke up? Do you really want him back or is it just the natural reaction of your to body to fight for him because you just broke up.
Try and give it a period of no contact, 1-2 months, if after that period you still want to be together go for it. Chances are by that time you’re getting over him and realize why things never worked out for you in the first place. During the no contact period focus on improving yourself, if you and your ex get better he will see you improved yourself and that gets him excited. If you don’t want to get your ex back by then, your improvement put you in a great mindset so your absolutely fine on your own and entering the dating scene when your ready more confidentlyAugust 8, 2019 at 10:47 am #759536
Inane in the brain
Why in the world do you want to put yourself through it again?August 8, 2019 at 11:13 am #759541
Why?August 8, 2019 at 3:08 pm #759568
I posted earlier because I was confused by my ex boyfriend’s mix signals, that he wouldn’t initiate any contact but he would act like a boyfriend. He actually initiated a text an hour ago after our conversation ended this morning, I didn’t reply to his last text, but he initiate a long one telling me how wonderful he felt kissing me Sunday, and he said he couldn’t wait to see me again Saturday.
Don’t do anything sweet. At this time, patience is everything. Since last Wednesday I ended the NC and reached out, I initiated texting only twice. One led to his asking to see me and he took me for a nice road trip, one was this morning, I asked help, I wanted him to pick me up after a business annual dinner and dancing party and he gladly said yes. I suggest you to do this, if he cares about you, still likes you, he will be happy to feel needed. Meanwhile you can find out what a lucky girl you are, just like I did -:)August 14, 2019 at 1:01 pm #760176
There are so many unanswered questions.
How did you two break up? A breakup can be really one of the most shocking things to happen in anybody’s life, especially if you weren’t ready to end things.
I know you can go crazy right now thinking about this but the first step you need to take in order to get them back is to get some distance.
Sometimes, you can go crazy thinking about all the things that went wrong in your relationship I was in the exact same position as you were in a couple of years back.I had just broken up with my current boyfriend and I was devastated.
I’ll tell you what I did:
well, first of all, I realized that they needed some time away from me so I started employing no contact. No texting or calling for a period of a month. At first, I was scared that they were going to forget about me during this time but actually, I guarantee you that If you two were in a serious relationship, there is no way they forget about you if you don’t contact them at all for 30 days.
Actually, I’ll recommend you one tool I used too. It was called the ex-factor guide and basically, it was a guide on how to get them back. I read it during no contact and at this point, I was already becoming confident I could get them back later if I just followed the advice there.
During no contact, I actually managed to make my ex a bit jealous about me. After the 30 days had passed and we finally got in touch again, it wasn’t very hard to arrange a meeting with them and then we built on from there and talked about all the issues we had previously had and how to solve them.