I keep getting the urge to message him


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    anon

    it’s been a week no contact. I couldn’t even pull myself out of bed this morning for feeling so down. I’m hurting everyday. I don’t know how I’m gonna get through everyday I’m so used to him being part of my life but I know it’s properly for the best. I want to email him and tell him how I feel tell him I miss him but then I’ll proberly hurt myself more when there’s no reply. I blocked him heat of the moment when he was talking to me like crap I told him I was done. then after I called down I unblocked him to come I had been blocked I blame myself. all the times he’s left me and blocked me and ignored me for days I was always there always messaging him to come back and eventually he would but this time I do it he’s gone and I havnt heard from him since now I blame myself for over reacting it’s made me feel so low I don’t know weather to send a final message as it’s been a week now or just leave things.



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    Joe

    He obviously doesn’t want to continue with you. Leave him alone, grieve and then and move on.

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    Amanda

    You need to let this go. It will take time, but it will get better. You must go no contact, and have no social media interaction.

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    Devil’s Advocate

    Anytime some says this “all the times he’s left me and blocked me and ignored me for days I was always there always messaging him to come back and eventually he would but this time I do it he’s gone and I havnt heard from him since now I blame myself for over reacting.” If a relationship is on and off and he is constantly dumping you and coming back and dumping you and coming back it gets to the point it’s toxic for both people. Get off the roller coaster ride and stick with no contact and blocking him. If this relationships hasn’t worked all the times before it’s not miraculously going to work now. Concentrate on no contact and move on. It may hurt now but over time you will realize this was the best decision you’ve ever made.

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    peggy


    yup-what the Devil A said..

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    Emma

    I bet the OP is going to message him begging him to come back.

    So sad, oh how sad that some women have no dignity, no backbone. Yes it will hurt, you are not the first one to go through a breakup, everyone experienced pain, everyone! But there is a point at which a person should base their actions upon reason and logic. This relationship is done, thre is no future here, you will be going through the same thing again and again if you don’t end it.

    It will hurt for a long time, several months maybe more, but in the end you will heal and you will have a chance to meet someone who will be treating you nicely. If you take this time to grow emotionally and develop your dignity.

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    anon


    I have not messaged him and i dont intend to. I have already made the mistake of trying to work things out with him (again) last week but my email was ignored. I just keep getting the urge to try again and again and I have to stop what I’m doing I know it’s done in fact I have known it’s been done for a while but I was struggling to move on from it. I still am I just can’t stop thinking about him and how we were during the good times but the guy also treated me crap too and that’s what I’m trying to concentrate on but no I’m not going to message him. I posted on here instead of it.

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