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She broke up with me and less than a week later she’s talking to new people :( I’ve said to her “ I know that U were the one who broke up with me, but I still care about you. I rlly don’t want anyone else to have you just yet” and
“I know you’re fed up with me, but all I’m asking is for you to give me a few more days before you make your final decision about us u really care about me so I just wanna talk for a few days then if you want me to go or be friends we can :)” this resulted in her blocking me :( I don’t want to lose her forever or to some guy who doesn’t give a f*** about her or her needs. She’s told me she does love me but this is “what she needs to do” is there anything at all I can doAndreea
Get over her,this îs a toxic relationship, find your own peace and then you ei find a girl Who will apreciate you and love you more than anything, sometimes we must let go of people so that we can welcome new people in our life.
Ss
You sound obsessive and clingy. She has told you how she feels so respect her wishes and leave her alone before she gets a restraining order. You can’t make someone love and want to be with you! It doesn’t matter how strongly you feel- she doesn’t feel the same. Leave her be
Addison
OP – your 1st post did not have nearly enough info about you, her or the relationship to definitively declare if it was toxic or not, so i disagree with Andrea’s 1st sentence, however the rest of what she said was completely accurate. I do not see your story with this girl having a happy ending. If she still wants you but is doing it to make you jealous then that is not healthy and that won’t be a healthy union. On the other hand, if she is saying all of those things because she is truly done with you, then yes, just like Ss said, you DO need to respect her wishes and leave her alone. Again, you cannot make anyone love you, nor would you want to – you want the person to want you because they love being around you out of their own free will.
So I’d so go with the advice you got here and leave her be – it stinks to hear now, but chasing after her will bring you nothing good, trust me. Work on yourself and the right woman will be out there for you. Good luck.
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