Hypothetical Question on “trust-testing”

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January 2, 2020 at 1:25 am #782035 Reply

Mar123z

This is a hypothetical question:

Ladies say you recently started dating someone but early in it seemed as though you were exceedingly “trust-tested”.

(Which, I believe a certain level of “trust-testing” early on IS necessary)

But consider you weren’t being offered the same courtesy in return.

How would that make you feel and what would you do?

January 2, 2020 at 2:12 am #782036 Reply

Raven

What is ‘trust-tested?’
I’ve not heard that term…

January 5, 2020 at 11:28 pm #782252 Reply

Carmen

Do you mean being put in situations to test if you are loyal? Or asking questions to test your loyalty?

I’m going to be honest, when woman do this, its typically because they’ve been hurt, cheated on, emotionally wrecked by previous men or a man. They are scared, hurt, vulnerable. Imagine feeling that way in dating? They trusted and someone took advantage of that.

Best thing you can do is treat them like gold. Show them you are the guy who is good, honest, supportive, and caring. You are a good guy. Make them see that you are the guy they have always wanted by being honest and loving. Girls who are untrusting need safety and comfort. If you treat them well, they will most likely be the best, loyal,loving woman back.

They need time to open up. Give them the respect, do the trust testing, and they will open up to you like you need them to.

January 6, 2020 at 12:38 pm #782287 Reply

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