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July 15, 2019 at 6:19 pm #757105
So I found this guy on dating app and after a week of flirting through chat, we decided to meet. We kissed, talked a lot and I ended up bringing him home. I refused to have intercourse because I’m inexperience, a virgin and not well prepared on that day, especially I was having period and had no energy due to it. But then I gave him bj and vice versa (I was surprised as I was bleeding, didn’t expect he’d go down there) and spent some time to cuddle. It was so fun and we giggled all the time with lots of kisses and hugs. The pillow talk was nice too but I stated to him that I don’t do boyfriend. I want to experience him and want him to come over again to have a real sex but if it’s the last encounter, I’m fine as well. He just murmured vague answer but when he was about to leave, he said we should grab some coffee later.
After he left, he sent me a goodnight text and I replied it in the morning with a good morning text. He simply replied my greeting and I don’t reply such a simple text, plus I’m not into texting that much.
I am very much aware that I like his presence but am not interested in relationship, as I’m leaving the country in a month. I like the way we flirt and have fun, but kind of surprised how he could be this distant after that night. Okay, he could be distant because of that biological thingy. But, I always want to be clear and already told him what I want. When I should ask him for the coffee promise? He did mention that he’d be busy this week. Should I just ignore him till he contacts me first, though it means I have to wait in uncertainty in this short period of time (and I hate it because I don’t play games)?July 15, 2019 at 6:22 pm #757107
So he drank your blood? Charming.July 15, 2019 at 6:25 pm #757108
If you plan on leaving in a month and want something no stings attached then just reach out to him.
I see no reason to over think this.July 15, 2019 at 6:30 pm #757112
He said it’s clean but I think it’s a lie, there was clearly some blood on my pad.July 15, 2019 at 6:31 pm #757113
So sad….July 15, 2019 at 7:47 pm #757120
This was way too much for a first date- I would focus on getting ready to go back to your country in a monthJuly 16, 2019 at 7:23 am #757152
Just go get a dude wherever you’re going to after the one month.July 16, 2019 at 1:52 pm #757184
Why would you want to lose your virginity to a man you’re never going to see again?
Was he drunk when he went down on you? If he was, he might be a bit grossed out…
I wouldn’t pursue this but if you really really just want sex with this guy then text him. Just don’t feel crap if he rejects you.