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June 24, 2019 at 3:56 pm #754836
I’ve been broken up with my ex for a while now and I managed to get over him. However, I recently found out that he has a new girlfriend and it’s honestly been getting to me. Like the other day he posted this picture of her holding these luxurious expensive items he bought it her that were worth hundreds of dollars. It just made me feel like shut because I remembered when we dated he never got me anything. And when I say nothing I mean N O T H I N G! I’m not saying I measured his love for me through materialistic things. I didn’t even expect that or want that from him. I’m not that kind of girl. However, it still makes me wonder why he didn’t feel the need to express his love like that for me like he does with his new girlfriend. It just makes me feel like there’s something wrong with me. I guess this is one of those things where it’s your ex so things will always be a little weird. I just feel insecure.June 24, 2019 at 4:06 pm #754840
Why are you still following him?
Delete & move forward…
There’s no reason to torture yourself-June 24, 2019 at 4:14 pm #754843
Maybe he’s going out with Sisi…June 24, 2019 at 4:14 pm #754844
You mean Sisi finally got her bracelet?June 24, 2019 at 4:16 pm #754845
Aha! Lurker you and I had the exact same thought just seconds apart. Don’t you love being like me?June 24, 2019 at 4:20 pm #754846
If you’re not the type of woman who’s into materialistic things, and never wanted or expected that from him, maybe that’s why he never got it for you? Just a thought. Maybe the new girlfriend is super materialistic so he humors her with gifts.
And, I wouldn’t assume anything about the quality of their relationship from social media posts or gifts– everyone knows social media is BS (in my experience the people who are always posting about how wonderful their relationships are, are usually the most miserable).
At any rate, the other posters are right. Don’t torture yourself, just block, delete, stop looking and move on.June 24, 2019 at 6:19 pm #754855
Perhaps he is insecure of her, and she badgered him into buying. Don’t assume everything is rosy between them.
You know people brag on FacebookJune 24, 2019 at 10:07 pm #754877
BETTER OFF SINGLE
You answered your own question.
However, it still makes me wonder why he didn’t feel the need to express his love like that for me like he does with his new girlfriend
I didn’t even expect that or want that from him. I’m not that kind of girl.
What kind of girl are you?
It sucks. He’s giving his attention to someone else and you have nobody, am I right? Have some hope darnit. And stop looking at his social media.June 25, 2019 at 5:55 am #754898
why r u still following him? don’t. I unfollowed an ex when I realised his posts still affected me. it just hampered my healing process. out of sight is out of mind. unfollow block delete whatever.. and brooding over this is not going to help you in any way.