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    Molly

    I got into a semi argument with the guy that I have been dating for a while now. We are exclusive and he invited me to go on a weekend trip with him but I had already made plans so I had to decline. I was really bummed I couldn’t go because I thought that it would be a good step for us. However, while he was there he kept texting me and telling me to come, describing all of the good things that were happening there. I didn’t answer because I was already sad about not being able to go and didn’t really wanna hear about how he was having the time of his life. A couple hours later, he texted me again literally begging me to come and how he’s mad at me now for not coming. So I obviously responded and just said something like I feel really bad blah blah blah. He then called me asking me why I couldn’t come. I was with a friend at the time of the phone call and she kept making me laugh to which he was like why do you keep laughing, are you really with another guy right now? He was still being playful so I was just like no of course not. Anyways, basically at the end of the phone he said that now he’s gonna have to get with another woman. We always joke around about seeing other people to make each other healthy jealous so I was like laughing like have fun with that because in my head I knew he was just kidding and wouldn’t actually do that. But I didn’t expect him to say goodnight and then end the call so abrupt. So I texted him and said have fun with your new girl as a way for him to get the chance to be like obviously I was just kidding. But he just kept taking the joke further and said well I offered you first. At this point, I started to become a little uneasy because we don’t joke about stuff like that for so long. Then he brought up me coming again to which he was like never mind you’re right it’s fine. So I brought it up AGAIN, and was like you better not get with another girl or else we’re done, giving him yet another opportunity to be like relax, I’m obviously not going to. However, this conversation was last night and he still has not responded.

    #791736 Reply
    Newbie

    I scrolled back as i remember there must been a few posts from Molly. Youre probably the same as the one who saw the the turning into more, but your parents not condoning this, you moving away etc. So multiple issues so far.
    Clearly you are young, which is nice and exploring and having fun. But in this case: what do you consider healty jealousy? You only saw it derail in texting between the two of you.
    And: if it was clear you couldnt make it this weekend because you made plans with a friend and he still kept begging, to me thats simple an orange flag. He doesnt respect the fact you made plans and left it at that.
    All in all the relationship is pretty immature but given the age thats ok. But making guys jealous in general is game playing and a bad idea

    #791737 Reply
    Molly

    Yeah, I have made posts in the past. Could you elaborate on why you think it is immature? I myself believe it is too but I just want some outside perspective on what specific things we need to work on. Also, what I mean by healthy jealous is like when we joke around about seeing other people even though we both know we aren’t going to.

    #791742 Reply
    Newbie

    I think i defined it: kept pushing for you to come plus the other men women jokes i consider juvenile too

    #791743 Reply
    Newbie

    If it was all jokes you wouldnt feel the need to post about it right?

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