He texted after the second date for two days in a row and now he ghosted

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    Hi everyone
    So I’ve met this guy on a dating site.
    We went out on two dates. The secode date went really well for both of us.
    He texted me the Sunday and Monday first after the date and we talked about it. He said it went really well for him.
    He also mentioned, that one of his friends is going through a personal crisis, and he’s helping him getting through it.
    Tuesday he didn’t text, so I texted him..
    He replied the Wednesday morning saying:
    Good morning, I’ve been not too well the past couple of days, apologies. Have a lovely day.
    I didn’t hear anything after that text from him. So Friday night I texted him a very casual text..
    Saying that I hope he’s doing and feeling better. And I’m here if he needs to talk to someone.
    I haven’t heard from him yet.
    Is he ghosting me?

    #735904 Reply


    You do not have to relationship with this guy.
    You went on 2 dates, this is not a relationship.
    Ghosting happens when there is a relationship.

    He’s got other things going on… Why are you continuing to text him?

    #735905 Reply


    I’ve only texted him twice.. but I’m going to ignore him and and move on

    #735922 Reply


    I’m assuming you didn’t already have sex with him this early, so it could be any number of other things. Maybe he’s stressed, got back with an ex, met someone else, realized you two aren’t compatible, etc. He knows you’re interested and available, so there’s no need to reach out to him again. If you don’t hear from him soon, it’s time to cut your losses and move on.

    #735924 Reply


    If I had a dollar for every man who used the excuse he was stressed and helping a buddy thru a crisis? Lmao

    #735926 Reply


    Have you ever helped a GF thought a crisis? did it prevent you from answering your phone?

    Be realistic and do not look for excuses. Even if the date went well it does not mean there would be interest. Many dates go well. People know how to make sure the date goes well, everyone has ton of practice LOL

    You texted him twice already, do not text him anymore.

    Next time lower your expectations and do not jump to ANY conclusions. Everyone is shopping around, even if oyu see a coat you like you don’t necessarily buy it right away, do you? This is the kind of mentality men have towards dating. They are always on the lookout for a better deal. Keep that in mind and keep your expectations low.

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