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Lisa.
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Lisa
I starting chatting this guy since January. But on March we getting serious with our relationship by getting to know each other and spend our time together. That time he really request to me to be his girlfriend because he don’t want me go to another guy.
We start to spend time together every days even just 3 to 4 hours. He likes to share everything about him with me especially his relationship (girlfriend) before. I really like him sharing everything with me. He always text me everyday and sometimes calls me even he is not really like get to attach with his phone. He is really wonderful and passionate guy.
However, he like to joking and sharing picture of the girl he met online before he know me. All of the girls just met him for one night stand only or one time dating. Yes I know he is not really serious with all that girls. But it makes me feel insecure with our relationship and also confuse what our relationship mean to him. Because I also never heard again he call me his girlfriend. But sometimes he said he miss me and want to spend time with me.
He is really likes me? Or he just playing and want to have sex with me?
Cayloo
Talk to him about it. Strangers cant tell you if he likes you or not. If it bothers you just tell him it makes you question your relationship with him and you’re not sure if he’s serious with you or not.. Try to have a serious conversation about your relationship with him
kaye
I’m going to assume English may not be your first language because your post was a little hard to understand. So he asked you to be his girlfriend last month and you see each other every day and he texts and calls you. You say he’s a wonderful guy but then also say he shows you pictures of his ex girlfriend and he’s had a lot of one night stand. I guess I’m confused as to how he can miss you if you are seeing each other 3-4 hours every day. And I’ve never had a guy I was dating seriously who showed me a picture of an ex unless I asked. And certainly not telling me most of the girls he met were one night stands! You feel insecure because he is making you insecure. A man who is serious about you wants you to feel secure and happy in a relationship. This a huge red flag this guy is probably a player who is looking just to have sex then move on to the next girl.
Lisa
Thank you cayloo for your advice.
Thank you kaye. Yes english is not my main language.
Yes I feeling insecure because he always making me insecure. When Im asking him why he always showing me all that girls and tell me all the details about him. He just saying that he really don’t know why he telling me so many things. He said he never sharing everything with others girl before. Im the only one he comfortable to share. It really make me confuse everyday. -
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