A guy I was seeing for about 4 months does not initiate contact for the past 2 months.
The last two months we were apart from each other due to holiday and my business trip.
He didn’t contact and didn’t show interest in my life. He would reply to my weekly message.
The communication pattern between us is far from what I want.
He seems to have an avoidant type of attachment and I am a bit anxious type.
I don’t think he could be a good guy for me in the long run.
I am now seeing other guys.
Should I told this guy that I am not interested anymore or I just leave it here and say nothing?
Ok…I feel for you girl. I too have anxious attachment and pretty much every person I date has avoidant attachment (including my ex husband of 10 years). These two attachment styles will NEVER work out, hence why I’m still single. Move on. Don’t text him why. If he is curious, he will reach out to you. He doesn’t deserve an explanation rn.