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March 26, 2019 at 1:57 am #744024
I had a guy friend that I had sex with. However, he stopped wanting to have sex a month ago. He said that work is stressful (new time-consuming goals they have to reach each month now that just started) and that his family is taking up a lot of his time. Can this be true or is it more likely he just lost interest? Normally I’d believe him but two times he’s also said he’s old and tired. He’s 43 and I’m 34. He wasn’t tired a month ago. Is it likely stress?
I would normally move on in this situation but he is really good at sex and I love his deep voice. It is the deepest voice I have ever heard.March 26, 2019 at 3:05 am #744026
Stop selling yourself short and gain some respect. This man isnt even interested in having sex with you. How much lower can you go?March 26, 2019 at 3:27 am #744027
A 43 year old man wants sex just as much as a 23 year old man does. And most men relieve stress through sex. I think he’s found a new FWB to play with.March 26, 2019 at 4:02 am #744029
My FWB has told me in the past he didn’t feel up to shenanigans at a time of stress as he gets migraines but we communicate so I knew it was temporary and he was genuine.
Depends how long you’ve been messing around together I guess?March 26, 2019 at 9:46 am #744046
Better off single
Bummer. It sucks when they leave you hanging like that. It’s why I won’t do a fwb.March 26, 2019 at 4:35 pm #744083
“I would normally move on in this situation but he is really good at sex and I love his deep voice. It is the deepest voice I have ever heard. ” – so what are you saying here? you are ready to harass and stalk him LOL
No it is not likely to be stress. He is politely telling you he does not want to have sex with you anymore. Maybe he found someone else, maybe there are other things but he is telling you loud and clear (as loud as it can be actually) that he is not interested.
If a woman wants to dive in denial you need to send a courier to her with a written rejection for her to believe it. And then still, she would ask for finger prints and then DNA.
Seriously, have some dignity here. You are 34, your time is ticking, do not waste it on deep voices with no interest and no potential.March 26, 2019 at 5:08 pm #744087
Whether the explanation he gave you is true or not he does want to have sex with you anymore.
Please move forward and don’t contact him about it anymore.
If you do you’ll look desperate.March 27, 2019 at 6:00 am #744110
his reasons don’t matter do they? when hes told you clearly he no longer wants to have sex with you.. what other way does he have to say for you to get the message that he dsnt want it anymore from u?