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HeartsCrackedaBit
If you’ve read my previous post, you saw that I was suspecting something awry, because of his attitude and treatment towards me when his kids and my kids all spent thanksgiving together. I had noticed the week leading up he had been on his phone all the time, working out (hadn’t in over a year), and generally being mean.
Well, he ghosted. No discussion, just gone.
In a moment of weakness, I called him, he acted like he didn’t know who it was, and hung up.
Well, I log on to messenger, and some woman I never met or heard of messages me saying “hey hope your ok. I know he’s being a coward but he doesn’t want drama. Hope you can get past this.”
The fckin nerve. I respectfully responded, ‘this is not between you and I, and I would respectfully request you mind your own business.”
What in the actual Fck. How dare them.
I’m so angry and upset I want to explode. I didn’t do a damn thing to deserve this. Why?! Why have another woman message me?! Why not man up?! Ugh
– HeartsCrackedaBit more nowRaven
Sorry to hear this…
For what it’s worth, he’s no man… Just a chicken sh!tShelleBelle
Why have a woman message you? Because either he’s gone back to his ex (most likely) or he’s been dating someone else all along. In either case, he’s told her you won’t leave him alone even though he broke it off with you and she’s “helping” him deal with you.
This guy is a world class dick and I’m sure you’re ready to go through the roof but he is not worth any more of your time and energy. You deserve a lot better.
Newbie
I probably would have done what you did or worse, like go this house and tell him in his face what i think of im as a person. I would also not have been so classy responding to the woman. I would have asked what she is to him. Or why she stays with a coward. All i can say is, youre the better person of him and you. You have class, he doesnt. You are honest, he isnt. You fight fair, he doesnt. And i can list a lot more of how you are the better person. In the long run youre better off without him. Im really sure about that. I hope you can find closure in yourself with knowing, youre thebeyyer person. Hugs and a blissful 2021
T from NY
If this is the guy we all commented on before – we pointed out people SHOW YOU who they are. I call those interactions gifts from the universe to knock some sense into our female hard heads. He’s a complete asshat! Do a little meditation and try to breathe that loser right out your body! Reflect and love yourself more in 2021 to not be bothered with men who ghost. They are awful and you did nothing wrong but care about someone. But continuing to engage in any way only hurts you.
Here’s to all single women to only allow men truly worthy of us, who are kind to us, in our lives. Here’s to all women, even in relationships, to never lose sight of ourselves. May all of us start, or continue, to date and love ourselves in 2021!
HeartsCrackedaBit
I thought he loved me.‘I loved him. And it’s hard for me to admit love. So, this hurts. A lot.
HeartsCrackedaBit
Thank you though. I appreciate the advice so much.
Wishing you all the best for 2021
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