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Sandy
Anyone have any opinions and thoughts on when you Ex seems too proud or even too stubborn to admit that they have made mistake in letting you go?
When perhaps they realise what they had, but too it for granted, yet don’t won’t to admit it.
My ex seems to be going through this stage. Doing everything he can to ignore his actual feelings and distracting himself with anything possible.
Jules
Sandy I’m wondering why you’re waiting around or concerning yourself with a guy who’s too immature to express his feelings.
This guy isn’t relationship material if he can’t be up front and honest. Whatever this interim period is is a waste of your time and concern. I would also caution against making assumptions as to what he’s thinking or feeling.
The best thing you can do for yourself is move on. A guy who is ready for a relationship will be able to express himself.
LAGirl
Oh! Several times! and then when you move on, they ‘suddenly’ come back in your life and you realize that is all such BS. But my advice to you would be to stop thinking about such thoughts and focus on your life. He made a choice and let you know and you don’t let it affect you!
redcurleysue
Yes, men can be mules at times, proud mules.
But who cares? Move on..
Sandy
I was in a relationship with him for 5 years, that’s probably why I am still holding on and love him, still live in hope. We were very compatable and had such a great time together.
We broke up suddenly and there was no real good reason for him ending things. He became very negative and bought that into the relationship towards the end. I am a very positive person, so this made it very hard.
I know he let me go and all that, so move on.
Wish it was that easy.
All the feedback I get from people close to him is that he will soon realise his mistake, he is just to stubborn right now.
He was never one to confront or express his feelings easily! He always put a wall up!
Hannah
Sandy, in all honesty, you and the people around him don’t know he thinks he made a mistake, unless he’s actually said that to someone.
Making the decision to break up after 5 years is a big decision and presumably one he didn’t make lightly, even if it seemed sudden to you. Unless you broke up after a big fight and it was an instant reaction to that, this will have been on his mind for a while.
He may decide it was a mistake after some time apart, guys often do. But if you got back together, you would have to work really hard to ensure whatever went wrong last time didn’t happen again. As he’s not on to talk about feelings, I can’t see how you would be able to do that.
I agree with the others that you should move on. The first stage of that is accepting the relationship is actually over.
Tallspicy
Going to be harsh here. So you can move on.
A. He did not make a mistake, he chose not to be with you. Really take that in so you can move on. You wish he thinks he made a mistake, but most likely he didn’t. Also, he may have decided a while ago and is therefore already really over it.
B. Never stay with a man longer than 2 years without a plan to get married. You waste the pretty and he hides his time. He knew back then you would not make the long haul because men know pretty early, but will keep dating for love and companionship.
C. I hope you are doing nothing to get him back.
D. Even if he wanted you back, you never know, your attitude is to dismiss his feelings and tell him he is actually feeling something else. Might be part of why it ended….something go think about.
Sara
Hi, I just read this and was wondering what the update is. Did he realize his mistake or did you move on?
ribbonz
Is there a reason why you need this clarification? are you considering a reunion?
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