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    Emiliaxo

    Hi – need some input about my dating-situation.

    I have been seeing this one guy on and off for 2 years, we are now getting exclusive and sex is great.

    However last night he lied to me about his ex- they were together for 3 years and shared apartment. She dumped him and mivex out. However, he has over the course of 2 years said it’s completely over with her and that they don’t even talk, let alone sleep with each other. I took his word for it.

    Until last night, i always notice how he is protective over his phone. Also, i found out from a friend of his (met randomly at a coffe place) that the guy im seeing is in touch with his ex. And it sounded quite serious.

    I asked him about and he mumble something about her mail still coming to his apartment etc it felt really strange. 3 years after break up her mail what?

    I think hes still doing her favours in case she wants to get back together with him. It hurts alot cause i really like this man but if he’s lying im not sure how to move forward?

    Thanks

    #782617 Reply
    Dangerouse

    I don’t know about the ex, but you are saying he is sneaky and hides his phone activity? That’s kinda a turn off.

    Whatever you imagine. or assume is going on is probably wrong. But if he’s sneaky about the phone, there’s a reason.

    You can’t force a man to commit, you can only observe and let your brain tell you if he is good enough for you. A man with things on his phone to hide is no fun.

    #782629 Reply
    Pandora

    OP, you know a very little about this man after 2 years of dating (even if on-off)

    I have mixed feelings about your post and I am confused about what is your problem or question?

    If you (after 2 years) dont know anything about his past life, how internet strangers can advise you anything?

    why you had an on-off thing with him for 2 years? how often did you meet? do you know his friends and family? how you met?

    #782636 Reply
    Lane

    I too am wondering how much you really know about this guy after two years, How did you suddenly become “exclusive”? I get that people aren’t in a good place or position and it changes to where they are and if they truly love a woman they will will step up big time and start the process of fully integrating her into his life, and him in yours.

    It doesn’t sound like he’s looking long term with you as the term “exclusive” is a word men invented to give them wiggle room to tell you “I’m just enjoying your company, for now but that’s all this will amount to.”

    And on and off thing over that long of a period would not be the type of man I would hitch my wagon too as he always has one foot out the door and you will never feel fully safe or secure in that kind of see-saw relationship. If you choose stay, all I have to say is good luck.

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