Do I need to tell my bf about my past?

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    Hey all! So, I wanted to get your advice on whether or not I should tell my boyfriend (we are both in our 30’s) about a co-worker that I had a fling with before he and I became official.

    Long story short, my bf and I dated on and off for awhile because he has commitment issues. He floundered a lot about being in a relationship which was really frustrating – and a few months before we became official, he had told me once again that he still wasn’t ready to be in a relationship. At that time I ended up having a short fling with my co-worker. Then my bf finally came around and we became official, so obviously things with my coworker ended. Now my bf and I have been together for 2 years, things are going great and we are ready for ready for engagement/marriage.

    I still work with my coworker who I had the fling with but because it happened during a time when my bf still didn’t want to commit to me, I don’t feel like I need to tell my bf now. But there can be moments (few and far in between) where I feel guilty since I still work with this coworker and see him in the office. I’m also the type of person to overthink everything.


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    Why on Earth would you tell him this?
    It’s ancient history… Lose lips sink ships…

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    Are you kidding? Absolutely not!

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    Thanks ladies!! I know it happened when the current bf and I were dating but he did not want to be in a relationship yet, so we were not official yet :)
    Phew, thanks!

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