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    Stacey

    Angiebaby, this is really helpful advice.
    I am in a similar situation (again no judgement please) but i walked away about a month ago when the promises he was making, clearly weren’t being kept and i was always second to his wife.
    He has blocked me so unlikely he will ever contact me again but it is nice to know that it does sometime work out for true love.

    #934886 Reply
    Nellie

    Wasn’t trying to be mean to you, in fact I have your best interests at heart.

    Most promises these married men made are simply bullcrap. It might be true that they have no feelings for their wives anymore, or how they don’t have sex anymore. But divorcing the wife? It’s usually a lie.

    These married men are just dangling carrot in front of you, they aren’t actually going to leave the wife. Please cut your loss before you find yourself wasted 5 years on him.

    #934888 Reply
    AngieBaby

    Stacey, I”m glad it helped. I wouldn’t get involved with someone married but it’s not my place to judge. I have noticed that people who post about being involved with someone married often get a lot of disapproval here. The fact is not many of these things work out, but some do.

    Nellie, I entirely agree with you. It’s very often men making promises they don’t intend to keep, they like getting their needs met outside their marriage but they are anchored to their wife because of kids, history, etc. Some do intend to leave and then decide at the 11th hour they can’t/don’t want to go. My advice to anyone is don’t sit and wait for or plan your life around someone who is still in a relationship, particularly a marriage.

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    Mary

    How would you handle knowing he would not be faithful to you either? I also think he is telling you what you need to hear…leaving assets to wife. Guys don’t typically give up $$$ like that. They want to feel like winners and $$$ is a huge part of the picture for them.

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    Rua

    Well everyone figths and go after their own happiness, this type of story is very common. I could only say is not something i wish to happen to any woman that i love in the place of the wife. But who can say, maybe both can make a better life in separated ways. Only what i can say is that one woman said… i wont be the cause of sadness or insecurity of other woman.

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