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    Maria

    So, my boyfriend and I broke up recently. Then, we decided to try and make things work. My birthday was recently and he bought me a birthday present. He had it sent in the mail to me with a very nice note and everything. We’ve been talking, he was texting me first every day and telling me he loves me. Things were almost back to normal.
    And then today he stopped texting me for a while and I got upset. He basically told me he didn’t care to talk to me, which hurt me and we got into an argument. I was feeling hurt because someone who used to love speaking to me so much is so blatantly rude to me now. And then, when I confront him he says I’m being crazy and tells me it’s not going to work.
    As you can see, I’m feeling very confused. I mean, I know what mixed signals mean but i just wanted this to work so badly. I am so confused as to how someone (who doesn’t even have that much money) would buy me a birthday present and then four days later tell me he’s “not feeling it anymore”. He sometimes says things just to upset me when he’s mad at me because we said hurtful things to each other but he’s basically told me he’s done and I don’t want to beg. Is there anything I can do to salvage this or is it a lost cause?

    #782127 Reply
    Raven

    Seriously… You got red with him cos he didn’t text you back immediately?!

    #782141 Reply
    Better off single

    Seems like a lost cause. When 2 people or one person avoid the problem and do not talk it out like adults, would rather blame each other without acknowledging their role in it, with no understanding or empathy for the other person, this situation is bound to happen and it will never work out.

    When one person has the empathy trying to understand where their partner is coming from, asking hard questions and the other one is immature, avoids problems, and is convinced they’re right all the time, you have a toxic relationship.

    He isn’t feeling it anymore. Nothing you can do about it.

    TBH, I really don’t think this guy ever loved you in the first place. Two people who love each other communicate.

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