I’m not sure what the point of doing this would be: no I never checked ever with any guy. Seems like you don’t trust him. If that’s the case you can’t have a healthy relationship. What do you hope to learn by doing this?
I think it’s just being nosy if I’m honest. And a lot of people seem to say things like, he didn’t answer my text but he had been online which suggests they check up. If you are waiting for a reply it’s just easy to look when they were online so at least you know if they have seen your message. Bit ridiculous really but a lot of people seem to do it lol.