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So my bf and I have been together nearly 6 months, all going well and I felt like I was falling for him. He was always very affectionate and we were making plans for the future, had met each other’s family, been on holiday etc.
Then out of the blue last Sunday he asks me to go for a walk (having stayed over on the night before and everything being good) and says he has been having doubts and that he doesn’t feel like he is in the right place romantically that he should be by this time in the relationship. That he was sorry he couldn’t give me what I deserved and I had done nothing wrong, but that we should break up. I was shocked, confused and devastated- still am…
We spoke on Monday night and he said he had slept on it and still thought it was the right decision, but agreed we were on the same wavelength and he would really miss me and was so grateful for the last 6 months. He then said we should have no contact.
I am at a loss for what to do, I miss him so much and feel so confused. I haven’t contacted him and it’s been a week. This was so out of character for him and I desperately want him to come back to me and say he wants to try again. What should I do?Newbie
Im really sorry but you have to believe what he is telling you. Which is he isnt in love with you the way he feels he should be. These situations were it was almost good really are the worst but you have to accept its over
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He has given you his very clear reasons and there is nothing you can do to change it. For whatever reason he wasn’t feeling “it” with you. That doesn’t mean he doesn’t like you and doesn’t enjoy spending time with you, just that he doesn’t see it going further. Its horrible and its ok to feel upset and grieve this ending but he told you the truth and did so clearly and kindly which is more than a lot of guys offer.
Delete his number and social media. Focus on you, be kind to yourself and then pick up and move on. Do not contact him under any circumstances- it will never give you a good outcome.
Sending hugs x
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