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  • #704157 Reply

    blahblahblah

    My boyfriend’s mom makes me scratch her nasty ass back
    Every single time I come she makes me do it + while doing it saying annoying pushy stuff to me
    I’ve told the boyfriend and he said just lie and say you can’t like make up saying I have a headache
    My mom doesn’t even let me massage her or scratch her back my mom says “I would never let anyone do stuff like that. Like its degrading” never told my mom that she makes me do that but that’s my mom’s opinion in general. I mean like to do it sometimes for someone like once in a while, but to make someone do it all the freaking time is messed up..
    It has been feeling degrading and idk what to tell that woman without sounding “mean” cause she gets really dramatic.
    What could I say without sounding mean and so she can stop asking me to do it and I can shut her up? Something simple as well because anything that also sounds too complicated to her she will probably be dramatic about it. I’ve been thinking for a long time so I thought maybe some of you guys could help. Thanks!



    #704159 Reply

    What

    She need onion, too

    #704164 Reply

    Joe

    Give her a wooden or plastic back scratcher. Tell her it makes you feel uneasy to scratch her back.

    #704174 Reply

    blahblahblah

    Lol. I tried that and she said “a back scratcher doesn’t feel the same as your nails blahblahblah” also have told her to ask her husband and she says no…

    #704177 Reply

    redcurleysue


    Tell her you do not want to catch anything and to see a doctor because I looked this up and she can have:

    A number of different health conditions can cause itchy skin:

    skin diseases such as atopic dermatitis (eczema), psoriasis, and hives
    bugs like scabies, lice, bed bugs, and pinworms
    kidney or liver disease
    iron deficiency anemia
    thyroid problems
    psychological conditions such as stress, depression, and schizophrenia
    restless legs syndrome
    cancers such as leukemia and lymphoma
    nerve disorders, such as multiple sclerosis, shingles, and diabetes
    allergic reactions to substances like chemicals, drugs, foods, or cosmetics
    pregnancy

    #704183 Reply

    L

    Wow.. a lot of people on drugs here lately.

    #704200 Reply

    blahblahblah


    Actually Joe I think I will try to just give her a stupid back scratcher and see what she says.
    redcurleysue – I’ve tried telling her that but she says “no the scratching de stresses me.” -_-
    To L that is above me – no lol. It’s a weird question but it is also kind of what to say/dealing with an annoying/overbearing mother of boyfriend.

    #704220 Reply

    Kk

    Find a man who doesn’t have a sick overbearing mother.

    #704224 Reply

    Mae

    Do it once more and play dermatologist. Tell her she has a ton of suspicious moles and should have a professional touch her back.

    #704227 Reply

    GS

    This sounds like a fake post,or his mother is sexually attracted to the OP.

    #704240 Reply

    redcurleysue

    Tell her that it STRESSES you to get a disease.

    #704258 Reply

    Hannah

    This is really strange! I would buy her a back scratcher and say it’s a special gift for her. Sometimes you have to humour the strange ones, especially if their your bf’s mother!

    #704266 Reply

    Devil’s Advocate

    Cut your nails then tell her you have this terrible itchy skin condition on your hands and the doctor thinks it’s contagious!!

    #704286 Reply

    Phillygirl

    People need to learn how to set boundaries and how to say NO! This is ridiculous

    #704302 Reply

    Danna

    What in the bloody hell is this?

    You should be doing stuff like cooking together or talking about your boyfriend’s embarrassing baby pictures not literally scratching her back.

    Looks like a desperate need for human touch. I say avoid it. When you’re over say hello to her and hang out with your boyfriend in his room or sit closely to him in the living room looking like you don’t want to be disturb. Or you can tell your boyfriend to call her out on it when she ask you in front of him.

    #704315 Reply

    Phillygirl

    Your BF’s family sounds completely bizarre. I wouldn’t go to their house anymore.

    Not too impressed with the way your BF has handled this either.

    Why wouldn’t he tell his mother to knock it off (he could try explaining in a nice way this is inappropriate). Maybe none of them have normal boundaries.

    I’d be reevaluating why I’d want to date someone like this.

    #704317 Reply

    Kk


    Why would you even do this? His family aside, what normal person would agree to do that

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