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May 24, 2018 at 11:55 pm #704157
My boyfriend’s mom makes me scratch her nasty ass back
Every single time I come she makes me do it + while doing it saying annoying pushy stuff to me
I’ve told the boyfriend and he said just lie and say you can’t like make up saying I have a headache
My mom doesn’t even let me massage her or scratch her back my mom says “I would never let anyone do stuff like that. Like its degrading” never told my mom that she makes me do that but that’s my mom’s opinion in general. I mean like to do it sometimes for someone like once in a while, but to make someone do it all the freaking time is messed up..
It has been feeling degrading and idk what to tell that woman without sounding “mean” cause she gets really dramatic.
What could I say without sounding mean and so she can stop asking me to do it and I can shut her up? Something simple as well because anything that also sounds too complicated to her she will probably be dramatic about it. I’ve been thinking for a long time so I thought maybe some of you guys could help. Thanks!
May 25, 2018 at 1:23 am #704159
She need onion, tooMay 25, 2018 at 2:39 am #704164
Give her a wooden or plastic back scratcher. Tell her it makes you feel uneasy to scratch her back.May 25, 2018 at 4:42 am #704174
Lol. I tried that and she said “a back scratcher doesn’t feel the same as your nails blahblahblah” also have told her to ask her husband and she says no…May 25, 2018 at 5:55 am #704177
Tell her you do not want to catch anything and to see a doctor because I looked this up and she can have:
A number of different health conditions can cause itchy skin:
skin diseases such as atopic dermatitis (eczema), psoriasis, and hives
bugs like scabies, lice, bed bugs, and pinworms
kidney or liver disease
iron deficiency anemia
psychological conditions such as stress, depression, and schizophrenia
restless legs syndrome
cancers such as leukemia and lymphoma
nerve disorders, such as multiple sclerosis, shingles, and diabetes
allergic reactions to substances like chemicals, drugs, foods, or cosmetics
pregnancyMay 25, 2018 at 7:57 am #704183
Wow.. a lot of people on drugs here lately.May 25, 2018 at 9:01 am #704200
Actually Joe I think I will try to just give her a stupid back scratcher and see what she says.
redcurleysue – I’ve tried telling her that but she says “no the scratching de stresses me.” -_-
To L that is above me – no lol. It’s a weird question but it is also kind of what to say/dealing with an annoying/overbearing mother of boyfriend.May 25, 2018 at 11:05 am #704220
Find a man who doesn’t have a sick overbearing mother.May 25, 2018 at 11:23 am #704224
Do it once more and play dermatologist. Tell her she has a ton of suspicious moles and should have a professional touch her back.May 25, 2018 at 11:35 am #704227
This sounds like a fake post,or his mother is sexually attracted to the OP.May 25, 2018 at 12:42 pm #704240
Tell her that it STRESSES you to get a disease.May 25, 2018 at 1:49 pm #704258
This is really strange! I would buy her a back scratcher and say it’s a special gift for her. Sometimes you have to humour the strange ones, especially if their your bf’s mother!May 25, 2018 at 2:22 pm #704266
Cut your nails then tell her you have this terrible itchy skin condition on your hands and the doctor thinks it’s contagious!!May 25, 2018 at 3:44 pm #704286
People need to learn how to set boundaries and how to say NO! This is ridiculousMay 25, 2018 at 5:12 pm #704302
What in the bloody hell is this?
You should be doing stuff like cooking together or talking about your boyfriend’s embarrassing baby pictures not literally scratching her back.
Looks like a desperate need for human touch. I say avoid it. When you’re over say hello to her and hang out with your boyfriend in his room or sit closely to him in the living room looking like you don’t want to be disturb. Or you can tell your boyfriend to call her out on it when she ask you in front of him.May 25, 2018 at 6:32 pm #704315
Your BF’s family sounds completely bizarre. I wouldn’t go to their house anymore.
Not too impressed with the way your BF has handled this either.
Why wouldn’t he tell his mother to knock it off (he could try explaining in a nice way this is inappropriate). Maybe none of them have normal boundaries.
I’d be reevaluating why I’d want to date someone like this.May 25, 2018 at 6:44 pm #704317
Why would you even do this? His family aside, what normal person would agree to do that