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October 1, 2018 at 3:25 pm #722806
Better off single
That spits at you.June 11, 2019 at 10:54 pm #753367
I’ve been told the same thing and feeling the same way. No longer want to be naked around him no longer want to have sex just overall uncomfortable really uncomfortable in my own body … we’ve been together for almost 2 years and now have a 3 month old son… hearing that after postpartum really messed with my head. I’m looking into LabiaplastyJune 12, 2019 at 12:39 am #753372
Better off single
And people think I’m nuts. Get surgery down there, there’s always the possibility of losing sensations or the doctor screwing up.
If he doesn’t like it he doesn’t have to look at it. Stand up for yourself! Change because you want to or think you need to. not because you want the approval of your boyfriend everytime he is being an inconsiderate a. S. S.
If you do it, then hes going to make comments about your belly, wish you had bigger boobs, or your nose was smaller. Then he will leave you anyway with some dumb reason like how fake you look.
Know your worth.June 12, 2019 at 3:14 pm #753462
I’m so sorry for what you’re going through, what a terrible thing to say :(
His reaction is misogynistic- he clearly reacted this because he was threatened by your sexual experience and sexuality in general.
Also- he is ignorant cause that’s not how it works , as you said yourself.
Ignorant+misogynist? Both are pretty big turn offs for me.
I would leave. You are young and you don’t have kids together- why fight for it? You deserve more.June 12, 2019 at 6:28 pm #753488
CICI – if you’re only 3 months post-partum, give yourself time. It took my bits months to settle back to ‘normal’, and things are always different, after. You birthed a new life! That’s amazing. Your man needs to remember that.June 13, 2019 at 2:38 pm #753560
This thread has actually made me feel sick to the pit of my stomach. REALLY there are men out there behaving like this and there are women who want to hold onto them!? Disgusting Creatures. I don’t care that she ‘lied’ I have never told a man my real number, big deal get over it nobody died. And if a woman has only had one sex partner whom she’s had multiple sex with does that mean her inner hangs out too? Pfffft. Uneducated fools. Get rid of this JERK. PLEASE.June 13, 2019 at 2:46 pm #753562
Oh, and a guy once told me that men prefer women with ‘juicier lips’ because they have more to suck on. Of course this was a real man with real experience and they all have their own preferences just like I like to be penetrated by a larger than average penis which funnily enough hasn’t resulted in my lips hanging out because as we all well know we don’t get stretched out!!! But I don’t go around criticising men who are below average, urgggghhh!!!!!July 26, 2019 at 10:04 pm #758243
some men have big ego. like myself no matter how much i love you if you are 20 years old an been with more than 2 men. you are not for me . if you hide it and i get to know by other it gets messy
if you are 30 it does not matter you are mature enough so lets carry each other baggagesJuly 27, 2019 at 1:31 am #758255
Says ‘Bob’ with the wee little pp…