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    Molly

    I really thought maybe I wouldn’t have to come on here anymore because my relationship has been doing so well yet here I am. I was with my boyfriend last night and he smokes and I told him I didn’t want him to smoke in my car since I just bought it. The first time he listened but the second time he insisted to let him smoke through the window/door. However, to try to act funny he strayed blowing smoke at my face, into the car. I grabbed his phone as a joke (I AM NOT THE TYPE TO LOOK THROUGH HIS PHONE) to get him out of the car. Like a if you want your phone back, go smoke outside. He kept being stubborn so I swiped on his phone where it shows you just some previews but you’re really not in his phone because you haven’t put the password in. Anyways, my intention was not to snoop around or find anything but then I swiped I saw his Snapchat best friends list and they were all girls. Every single one of them. They are not his friends, I know his friends. They are just other girls he’s clearly still talking to. Is this cheating? Am I overreacting? Is there even a way to come back from this because how can I trust him?

    #794763 Reply
    Raven

    Your boyfriend is a punk!

    A disrespectful punk!

    #794765 Reply
    Newbie

    Have you asked this exact same question where you grabbed his phone to go through it except it was not in your new car? Is this a habit of yours? To grab his phone when hecdoesnt do something you dont like and then you stumble upon girls? And who was driving the car at this point?
    I think you are yanking our chains here or not seeing whats right in front of you: A guy who is not acting like a bf or a guy who has respect for you. I smoked for decades. There is no way i would ever light a cigarette in someone’s car

    #794769 Reply
    Phoebe

    Sigh, get rid of this idiot! Obviously has no respect for you if he smoked in your new car. That is more of a worry than the phone issue.

    #794778 Reply
    T from NY

    If he can’t honor the most minor request of not smoking in your new vehicle – how could he ever be a respectful partner to you? His phone log proves that. The universe gives us opportunities all the time to choose what we want. You have the choice now – loud and clear.

    I second the motion he is a top shelf punk. I’m sorry. Leave and grieve it and go forth and choose better.

    #794783 Reply
    Phoebe

    How odd… Another Phoebe all of a sudden… Every time I post on this site someone starts mimicking me. Weird. Think I’ll stop using it again.

    #794784 Reply
    Phoebe

    Just so you all know, any further posts from “Phoebe” are not from me because I’m not coming back.

    #794789 Reply
    Molly

    Hi phoebe,

    I’ve been posting on here for awhile now! Sorry you thought I was mimicking you. Is it weird I find some reassurance that there are people going through the same thing as me?

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