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    John

    Need a bit of advice. I met someone on pof both in our 30s and we hit it off straight away through text and phone calls. We spoke on the phone for hours. We arranged a quick date in the day which ended up being 3 hours. We saw each quite a bit in the 1st 2 and half weeks mainly me at hers Cos she had kids and I met the eldest and when was wasn’t together we was constantly texting and calling. But 3 times in this 3 weeks. She would ring me or text me saying she could do it anymore as she wasnt feeling it. So I said ok. I can’t change that thinking I wouldnt hear again. But she would text me day after saying sorry. I miss you. The 2 nd time she did it she went back on pof and arranged a date with a guy within a day and it ended Badly. I went on pof too Cos she dumped me just to see if she went back on and she was. We seen each othering there and she kicked off that I was back on. . That night of the date she texted me saying I miss you. Me not realising the date so I said miss you too. And we spoke on the phone the morning after and she told me. I said why. She said I was angry and she said it wouldn’t happen again so I forgave and forgot. Next week or so. Constant text and phone calls with each other. All t Day in day out all the time even like 5 call s a day. Most of this was started by her and then said I’m not sure if she was ready for a 100% relationship. Not just me but with anyone She was a bit drunk when she said it so I text her and said maybe we should leave it then. She panicked abit and said I’m sorry I was drunk. Ignore me. So I said ok. Next morning we FaceTimed each other. Spoke for like an hour and she said are you still on pof. I said ye but profile hid. No talking to anyone. Then the bomb came out she has 2 dates arranged that day and she didn’t think it was bad as we was not an item. I said I can’t do this as I wanna get to know you but not while your dating other guys and we left it at that. Not heard off her all day and then all of a sudden. I’m deleted off all social media not blocked with no warning. I’m so confused as we talked and text all the time. 1st thing in morning till late at night to the point of me thinking how did she make time chatting to theses guys we was talking that much She would Double text if I don’t reply straight away. I know we only was sort of dating nothing sexual happened between us. I text her that night saying take it your date went well and if you made the wrong choice then I’ll still be here and we can all make wrong choices but a lot more deeper the text I sent. She replied saying she couldn’t sleep with that message I sent Anyway. 2 days later I text hope your ok. With no response. She read it but no reply. I’m confused on what to do as it was totally out the blue. I’m
    Hoping she may reach back out to me

    #781994 Reply
    Alexis

    Maybe she’s not into serious relationship for now. It’s better to do other things or go meet up other people.

    I’ve been ghosted too by a guy who I thought things are going pretty well. It sucks being ghosted but you have to move on.

    #781997 Reply
    John

    Ye I’m going to.
    Your right. Being ghosted is pretty harsh with the connection we had. Totally understand if we met once. I just feel like I’ve been used for 5 weeks to make her ego better u till someone she thinks is better comes along
    I left the door open for her so I’m hoping she sits back and realises and hopefully misses me as this maybe guy she dated ain’t all that he seems of he’s just playing her and she kicks her self But to go from constant chatting etc between us to nothing she surely Cos to think in her mind sometimes

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