Am I overthinking with this guy?

I met this guy at a fun gathering two weeks ago. We talked and we could tell that we were really attracted to each other. We really bonded. I haven’t bonded with someone like that in a very very long time. My friend, at the same gathering, hooked me with him and told me that he was a guy that was really looking for a girlfriend. So we exchanged contacts and later found out that we live in the same area (10 minutes apart). We have met four times, all at my place. We haven’t hanged out at his place, he asked me once to go to his place but I declined since it was very late. We haven’t gone out. Two of the times that we have met, we have kissed. Just kissing, nothing more. However, we haven’t talked about the kissing. Friday was the last time we saw each other and we had the most amazing time of all the times we have met. He sang and danced for me and it was memorable. Since then, we haven’t met again. Yesterday, he had told me that when I am free I should tell him so that we meet. So, I called him at around 7 pm to meet and just say Hi but he told me that he couldn’t make it coz he wanted to meet with his friend. I was kinda upset by that coz if he is into me, isn’t he supposed to find at least 10 minutes to meet and just say Hi? considering we hadn’t seen each other for days. Today too we haven’t met. Also, his chatting is very poor. He doesn’t say good morning or goodnight. And it’s generally boring since he asks questions that answers are generally obvious.

My pattern with men before has been this: we hang out in the house for a week or two, we get intimate, he asks me to be his girlfriend after one or two weeks, we are in a relationship. We break up after some weeks. I will be lucky if I ever get a date or gift before then.

Now, my query is this…is this guy truly into me or am I over my head? Is he going to ask me out ever? Or is this going to be like the same pattern of guys who don’t ask me out like before? What does the kissing mean? Why doesn’t he chat like normal people do, or is it another sign that he is not into me?

He is a really nice guy. I just know that I’m poor at knowing a guys intention for me till I’m already in a relationship.

Ps: we are both in the same campus. Same years. Different courses though.

I want to get it right for once.

Help a girl out. Thanks in advance.