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    Anonymous

    Hey guys! I don’t know if this falls under this category but I am definitely confused and curious. One thing about me is that I’m a pretty curious person. If something doesn’t make sense to my brain, I want to ask questions.

    I know one night my bf and I were getting food and we joke around with requesting money on cash app. I took his phone to change his home screen (I’m always changing it to different pictures of me and he doesn’t care), but he assumed I was about to mess with his cash app and send myself money. He got pretty defensive about it and tried to snatch his phone away from me.

    Do you guys think that’s weird? Am I just over analyzing the situation?

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    Lane

    I wouldn’t think it was weird if that was the subject topic you were discussing when you took his phone. Were you discussing the cash app at the time he did it? If so then it sounds like he was legitimately concerned about it and that it might surpass the joking level?

    I would make a mental note and see if he starts changing his phone patterns such as hiding it, locking you out, or denying you access IF you’ve always had access. If he does say something like “OK, what are you hiding because people who have nothing to hide don’t hide it” in a regular non-judgmental tone and then see how he reacts. If he says its the cash app feature respond with “you can change the password if its that big of an issue for you” and then see how he reacts to that.

    I wouldn’t automatically think its fishy but I would definitely do some fishing if your gut instinct is telling you something’s off.

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