After 8 yrs officially done!

Hi y’all! I just wanted to come back here & give my final update w/ the guy ive had a “relationship” with for over 8yrs. I was given great advice on here & at times I felt I was strong enough & ready to take it & walk away, but something kept pulling me back in. The past couple months I’ve been distant w/ him, not allowing him to see me or just plain ignoring or just being real short w/ him. He had always been persistent in trying to see me but I got this feeling when he didn’t reach out on Thanksgiving. I ended up seeing a photo online w/ him & his family & guess what? He was sitting next to a girl w/ his arm around her & her hand on his leg. I KNEW IT!!! I wasn’t sad or mad about it just a huge exhale! I feel like this was God’s plan cause HE knew I wouldn’t do it all my own. Thank you GOD! My sister ended up sending him a message telling him off, telling him to leave me alone & he knows he doesn’t deserve a woman like me. In the end he showed me what a coward he is & obviously I never EVER meant anything to him. After 8 test his is how it all ended & after it took me a couple days to process this I feel a huge weight lifted. Starting 2020 off w/ no unnecessary baggage!
I pray for a wonderful man … I AM READY for true, unconditional, respectful love!!!❤❤❤