Is He Pulling Away? What Should I Do?
It’s the worst possible feeling.
You try to ignore it. You try to justify. But you know what’s going on … he’s pulling away from you. This on its own isn’t so terrifying. It’s your perceived reason for why he’s doing it that fuels the pit in your stomach. You’re terrified it means that he’s losing interest and he’s going to leave.
It’s not always easy to put your finger on what’s happening. He may be there physically, but emotionally he seems to be somewhere else. He seems withdrawn and emotionally closed off and the worst part is he won’t talk to you about it. You ask him, but he just brushes you off and makes you feel like a nuisance … which only adds fuel to your panicked heart.
You can’t help but think of the worst case scenario and beat yourself up over what you possibly could have done to push him away.
Well, relax! I promise you it’s not as bad as you think and getting things back on track isn’t that difficult.