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Nicki P
My ex and I broke up recently …we weren’t together for a long time , just 3 months. Its been almost a month since we broke up. He’s the really popular type , who knows a lot of girls and is super out going , he’s the type who’s into casual hook ups and what not. He’s a DJ working at a radio station so it fits his lifestyle well I guess…after meeting me he said he wanted something serious that he’s tired of playing around , clearly that was all bullshit…he broke up out of the blue…first he would ignore my messages and then boom, out if nowhere hes saying he can’t really handle a serious relationship right now. I was super sad and heartbroken but I was always prepared so I was pretty strong when it came to it.I’m a fashion designer and I’m currently doing my final year at college. Right after the break up I did a huge fashion show and I posted stuff on my Facebook page, I constantly keep posting on my wall…different stuff and it actually looks like I’m having a great time without him. My wall is filled with crazy fun things I did …recently I got offered a job at a huge apparel company to work as a designer and I posted selfies from the day of my interview although I didnt say anything about me getting the job on Facebook….now my ex and I hadnt spoken in 3 weeks …and all of a sudden he send SME a text saying hey! And his second message was okay give me the good news how’d the interview go ? And I’m thinking why dies he care ? And how does he even know about it :S I told him I got the job and he was like wow I’m happy for you ..and then we talk about normal stuff and he starts to ignore my messages and replies after 3-4 hours ….clearly he’s been stalking me. Why is he curious about me and my life ? He dumped me and he acts as if his life is awesome with all the pictures with different women on his wall ?
What’s he trying to do here ?Rose
It seems like he can’t stand the fact that you’re doing so good without him. I know, men and their silly little egos… They actually prefer to think we cry ourselves to sleep right after and a long time after they dump us. Evil? Seems like but it’s just their own insecurities telling them they were not awesome enough to make us desperately want them even if they don’t want us back.
Maybe he’s starting to regret letting go of such an awesome and successful girl, who knows but if he doesn’t say something like “let’s try again” don’t pay attention to him.
patsytshirt
You lost your power the moment you replied to him. Unless he apologizes and states clearly in his msgs that he wants you back explaining what changed, you shouldn’t reply to his lame “hey”. He rejected you, wtf does he need to know about your career? Dont entertain him. Exes stalk facebook because they hate to see that the dumpee is doing well and moved on without him. Please cut him off, go no contact again. of course he is ignoring you and is slow to reply your txts, you keep talking to him when all he probably wanted was to check if you still like him, dont let him mess with your head
Rose
It’s like my former dude, one day he said to me “Scorpios sting hard (he’s a Scorpio) and we break hearts”… I thought “what a douchebag” … So they actually feel good about themselves because they have the ability to hurt women.
Now I’m proving him with my silence that he’s not such a heart breaker (although he did break my heart) and that I’m not the begging kind. He can go bug someone else.
Nice try little bug, I’m immune to your little stinger!!! lol
Nicki P
I know exactly what you mean Rose and PartyTshirt men get pleasure out of hurting us and its wrong . I shouldnt have replied to him. I don’t know what his deal is but hes definitely the bug headed ones who thinks no end of himself. We don’t talk anymore after the day he asked me about my job. He eventually let’s the conversation die. And finally it does. I hope someday he regrets everything he did. And when that day comes I hope I’ll be in a better place happier and successful in life.
Rose he’s not worth your time , you deserve better and if he broke your heart he’s gaoing to regret it be strong for yourself :)redcurleysue
Men just want to know the could get you back – and you played right into his hands….
They are like a cat that plays with a mouse….let the TomCat find another mouse for his pleasure.
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