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    Stephanie

    There’s a guy who I recently have hooked up with a few times but I’m not sure why he keeps coming back because he knows he isn’t getting sex from me, or really anything from me for that matter. The whole evening is 95% of us making out and him pleasuring me (i.e. going down on my several times without me ever asking) and 5% of talking about personal things. He calls me more than a hookup but doesn’t want to date. He doesn’t want me hooking up with other people, but doesn’t want to date…and so on and so forth. None of this makes sense as to why he still wants to hookup with me. He spends the night and didn’t bolt out first thing in the morning when I told him I preferred if he stayed a little longer. Recently I told him we are on two opposite ends of the spectrum, I want more and he wants to have fun, so it is best if we cut it off. But I know we might end up hooking up again and I just don’t get why he wants to hookup knowing he isn’t really getting any and that it isn’t going to change.

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    L

    The real question is why do YOU keep doing the same thing with a man when he will never give you what you really want?

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    Jose

    L said it. Why in the world do you waste time on someone like that? He wants a f-buddy, not a girlfriend. You want a boyfriend, not a f-buddy. He continues to contact you because he know you will end up at his place (or him at your place)! Yes he doesnt like the idea of you having sex with other men, dating or not its a big turn off for him, if he thinks someone is also “hitting that”. It does not mean he wants something serious at all.
    You say.
    “I’m not sure why he keeps coming back because he knows he isn’t getting sex from me, or really anything from me for that matter.”
    He gets something! He gets to makeup with you and pleasur you! He is so close to get in bed with you, that not even you knows it. Thats why he keeps contacting you, he knows that if you dont cut this off, you will end up in bed with him.

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    Devil’s Advocate

    Are you really this naive? You say you’ve only hooked up with him a few times. As Jose says he knows it won’t be much longer before you give in and have full on sex with him. You told him you want more and it’s best to cut it off. But you’re already saying you might end up hooking up again. He knows you don’t mean what you say. No doubt he’s done this before and it worked. You’ll get emotionally hooked on him and give in to the physical. Then you’ll simply be a FWB when you want a relationship and be posting on here wondering how you got into this mess!

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    Amanda

    What the hell are YOU doing? He likes to give a woman oral sex. He likes to see you naked. This is why he does it lol.

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    Hannah

    You know a lot of men get off on pleasuring a woman? He’s doing it because he’s getting off on it. He might not be having full sex but he’s still having more fun than he would watching TV at home. Plus he knows the chances are you’ll end up having full sex with him eventually.

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