What does it mean when he says he is flattered?

Lol oh no I haven’t messaged him at all since then..! That’s what I’d decided to do is just wait and see. Just throw that out there and see what he does..Thanks for answering! I thought it meant he wasn’t interested in me honestly though…

Lol thanks Shanaya..!! That was my first thought..I’m like dang..He said “Thank You” well that’s over..But before I told him that I liked him he did ask me out. We made no plans or anything..So I felt like since he got back in contact with me after a while (like after a few months of us not talking at all and asked me out) I thought I’d gamble…But we’ll see..He is very inconsistent..But I really feel as if I make him nervous.

He did..! It was one of the first things he asked when we “talked” and then I told him how I felt a little later..So I’ll try to be calm..Thanks so much for your replies..!

I can only speak for myself but if I were to say “i’m flattered” that would mean it’s not mutual.
If I liked someone I would say, I’m so glad you told me that, because I feel the same.

Hi! I am 26 years old and feel in love with a co -worker. It all began when I started a new job, after working there like a few weeks. One day I was helping a customer in front of the bosses’ office which was about 10 steps from me. So, I felt a need to look at the office and my now crush was standing there looking at me with a smile but I thought he was overseeing my work. The funny thing is he was standing there looking at me while talking to our boss but he was not facing him at all. Then, he continued to stare at me and would go on to the kitchen when ever I went to lunch. So I fell in love but felt bad because at times he would act interested and then move away also the stress of work got to both of us and we would argue like a game at least for me. But he would get frustrated with me and my friend would tell me you are driving him crazy he is upset what did you do! Even our co workers new and saw our chemistry. Well, months went by we were talking about dreams amoung everyone! So I mentioned I wanted to live downtown and showed my co workers the photo. Including him, to them mention I did not like the color of the living room. To that he responds WE can change that. Then he showed me the dog that he dreamed of , one day he asked me to go with him to an event it was to begin a business and be a client, and so I did. But I did because I wanted him to be near him because I am deeply in love , but that just brought people to come between us and
the last time we saw each other was at the last event and he said that I wasn’t commiting. But, I was trying and I did not know we even were in a relationship , I mean yes he bought me drinks all the time and gave me certain attention but it was never clear. Well, after that I apologized to him for everything that happend he did too and just a few days ago I told him the truth behind everything which is I love him. His response was I am flattered but I am in a committed relationship. So I told him that I respected that and that I was going to back away and not contact him anymore to respect her and that still our friendship and he said you are never a bother and that his girlfriend knew about me and that she was not a jealous person. That I could talk to him anytime and he stalks me on Instagram. Is he into me but it is the relationship he is in?

Sorry Angel, he’s giving you a hard no.