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    Virael

    I knew this guy since 3 years go, as we are officemate. Recently since October, I just feel like he is trying to show his care to me. Mostly we rare to talk, still talk but not every time we met. But since this October, every moment between me and him start changing. Well tbh, I’m having a crush on him since 3 years ago actually. It kinds of shock me as well when trying approach me. I have been hangout (or date) for three times already. Every time, we are in his car we kept holding hands even when he is on driving atm. I ever asking him what is his opinion about me, like how the way he looks at me as his sister or a woman. We have 6 year age difference, until right now I can feel that he concern about our age gap. We kept chatting everyday, having eyebrow lash when we met, eating together at lunch on office. But one thing is bothering me is, he told me twice already that he isn’t ready to have relationship. I feel confused right now.

    #781376 Reply
    Virael

    I’m sorry for the typos : We kept chatting everyday, having eyebrow flash when we met, eating together at lunch on office.

    #781385 Reply
    Jo

    He told you he’s not ready to have a relationship. Anything else is irrelevant.

    #781392 Reply
    Lane

    Always LISTEN to what a man tell’s you! He clearly “told you” he’s not interested in a relationship and is highly possible he’s grooming you for sex only—BELIEVE THE NEGATIVES!

    I am going to give you some sage wisdom that a smart woman will take, those who don’t end up learning the very hard way. Here it is: NEVER GET INVOLVED WITH A CO-WORKER THAT YOU HAVE TO SEE OR WORK WITH ON A DAILY BASIS!!! I learned this lesson very early by watching them fall apart and then having to deal with the fallout in the workplace! Seeing it happen a few times made me set a personal “no dating in the workplace policy” of which I have not veered from as I have never seen a good one! Yup, in my 35+ years in the workforce I have NEVER seen a workromance go well!

    There have only been TWO that did work and actually married [before I worked there] but they worked in completely separate departments (buildings) so they didn’t have to interact with each other nor see each other in the event it went south. I am giving you a stern warning to not poop (date) where you work or one or both of you will end up getting FIRED which is what I witnessed many times when the romance fell apart and spilled out into the workspace—its super uncomfortable for other employees who have to deal with them!!!

    My advice is to treat him like a hot stove, don’t play with him, and only date/play with men outside your workplace.

    #781444 Reply
    Virael

    Thank you so much for the response. I’m grateful for anyone who replied the post. Yeah, I should realize from the start that this is too impossible, the relationship between me and him. I really hope I can move on from him and thinking him as my brother just like another officemate. Yeah stupid me, just because he is my crush, I have been thinking too much just like this. I knew I should stop and I’m trying right now. Thank you once again :)

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