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Mitchell Rehaume
What you’re describing is sexual magnetism. Those that understand what magnetism is, are highly irresistible, and pull people towards them. You felt the magnetic pull in your relationship.
Some people call this “chemistry” but it’s just magnetism. It’s a specific state some can inflict in others. Most of the time these people are so unconscious of what’s really happening.
Being with these types of people seem to awaken you. You see it in their eyes, the way they touch you, and their voice. It’s very intense and some people react very intense to this.
The higher energy will always influence the state of the other. Hence why some of your interactions get very heated and intense. This is the law of vibration.
Women are more aware of this feeling and crave it. This is the chemistry they want. They want that magnetism which is inside all of us. This is the inner energy.
When you have intense eye contact and feel this “connection” this is the inner energy of two merging. You will feel a magnetic feeling of being drawn. It’s highly irresistible.
Missy
It’s called Dopamine and it can be super dangerous! I’ve experienced it twice in my life. Once in my mid 20’s, which was unrequited so it sucked. The 2nd time recently. This time it was requited, however, I was in such a hormonal haze I got obsessed and needy. That and other circumstances pushed him to move on, rather quickly actually. (was seeing us both at same time) Just be careful because if you get in too deep, those highest highs can become the lowest of lows. It was absolutely devastating for me. Once all the smoke cleared, and I was able to push my emotions aside, I realized that it would never have worked out with us. I had completely ignored all the red flags with this guy and dropped all my standards. I’m not proud of any of that, but at least I didn’t go all fatal attraction on him. lol It’s a big life learning experience for me. So, just be careful. It can be great chemistry, but don’t let it blind you to other stuff you may see. And just enjoy it.
Lou
Reading you today and needed to share things… I have been with this totally gorgeous guy for 8 years now on long distance relationship. It would seem we have travelled the world of passion and sex to its limits. We cannot yet be together due to some issues but it is the Ferrari boost of my lifetime. The fire between us keeps flaming. We so want each other that when we meet it just overflows. I was scared it would not last as too lusty and physical and passionate and weird and kinky and wild but no. We feed each other’s sexual desire it would seem.
We have it all, except 24/7 physical togetherness even though we are having sex everyday on the phone. What can I say, it is a blessing to want each other so hard that it never stops.Lou
Oh and yes. Who loves with great sexual passion alongside, has a rollercoaster emotional relationship as well. But over the years the fire is fed into the sex, and you finally find peace and… blessed bliss!
Julie
What you call this so called chemistry is more than that….much deeper than chemistry it is literally a energetic attraction it has nothing to do with looks,It looks like you have met your soulmate or one of your soulmates since you can have more than one not always a relationship kind.It seems like you both were together in previous lifetimes.
Julie Upton
I have that same feeling for a guy I met at work. I’ve never ever had that connection before with anyone, not even my current partner. The guy and I are friends although I know we both want to explore.
It’s crazy, he lays one hand on me and boom, instant arousal. It’s something I’m trying to come to terms with and something I’m questioning. I haven’t had a lot of sexual experiences and wonder whether or not exploring would be an injustice to my sexual nature or not.
My friend is a LOT older than me but honestly I don’t care. Can I be addicted to him or is it just the pheromones, cause honestly everything about him, his voice, hands, scent and hair has me going crazy. We both know we can’t be intimate. I’ve just never felt this way about someone. -
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