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November 1, 2013 at 2:05 pm #45171
I posted my situation with this man back in April 2013. You may remember. The younger guy who with the ex girlfriend back east that said he could be the father of her 3 year old.
I wanted to give you all an update here. I, of course still talk to this guy. We have some kind of connection that can’t seem to be broken. I don’t contact him but will answer when he calls once a month, once every two months.
But I do know the whole truth now.
He is married to this woman. Has been for 5 years. He said they went to Los Vegas and got married as a joke. He said they told them that if the did not register in the state they lived in that it was not legal. Why he thought to tell me that lie, I will never know. I am ordained and marry people for a living. I know how things work.
But any way. She moved closer. About 100 miles from where he lived. He gave up his place and moved in with her so now he drives a great distance to and from work every day. The child is his. My friend has met this woman said she reminded her of me but that this woman looks to be a lot older then me and is missing more then a few teeth. She has 4 children. the 3 older children live with her mother. They only have the child they share living with them. He moved into her subsidized housing so he does not pay rent. She is living off the state so they have her food stamps and what ever else the state has to offer. He called me the other day because he was upset with her because she spent over $300.00 on a PS3 for him. He did not talk to me for 2 days because I sent him 30 dollars worth of flowers on Valentines day.
Any way. The man was living a lie with me. Our life together was a big lie. He lies to her too. I am sure she would flip out if she knew he was still talking to me.
I am doing a lot better now. I still love this guy. I do not know why. But I am moving on with my life.
I just thought you all would get a kick out of this Movie of the week end to my story with this guy.November 1, 2013 at 2:17 pm #45175
You love him for what you thought he was not who he turned out to be.
What I do when I get over a break up (esp if he cheated or something) is to make a list of all the reasons why I am good without him and his negative pointsNovember 1, 2013 at 2:23 pm #45179
Thanks for the update.
Sounds like you dodged a bullet