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Natasha
I have a friend who is a guy and he won’t text me back. We text regularly, and for the past couple of days he hasn’t responded to my messages. The only time he seems to text me is when he starts the conversation with the topic of his choosing, and even then it isn’t a very long conversation. He is usually very talkative, and it’s starting to worry me. Over the past two days he hasn’t really texted me at all other than asking how my day was or something along those lines. I’m starting to worry that he doesn’t want to be friends anymore, but I don’t know why because we have been good friends for two years.
Tamara
Apart from texting do you see each other (spend time together, do things together, get along well, have fun)?
Is it possible that you want more than a friendship with him? If so, is it possible that he senses that and put a distance because of that?
At the end of the day, if he doesn’t want to be friend with you, let him go. You prefer being with friends who appreciate your company and behave normally.
Natasha
We hang out around 1 or 2 times a week, and I don’t want more than just a friendship with him. He’s been a very good friend to me and he’s been there for me through thick and thin, he was actually helping my cope with the fact that my mom just had a seizure and will most likely be having another one soon. I just don’t want to lose such an important relationship.
Tamara
Natasha,
I am sorry for what you are going through.
But you can t lose an important friendship is the other person don’t want it.
IF this man is your friend and you get along well he ll stay in your life.
If he isn’t your friend then things will change. Maybe he can t help you anymore.
Anyway, you are strong enough to help yourself through difficulties.
Natasha
Thank you so much for your advice Tamara, but I called him and he told me why he hasn’t been texting me as much lately. He thought he might be moving, and he thought that if he stopped talking and texting me it would make it easier for the both of us. It turns out that he isn’t going to move after all, and we have been talking and texting a lot more.
Rhiannon
I have the same sort of problem. He called me up on friday but i couldn’t take the call i tried to call him back but he declined the call. I have been texting him on the weekend but he hasn’t replied unless it was for some pathetic joke. I told him to text me when he wasn’t busy because i thought that he could be busy playing GTA 5, but he hasn’t replied. Its not the fact that he doesn’t want to be my friend because he walked me home after school on friday. Please help.
Pandamada
This was happening for about to weeks or more and so he was my best friend we hung out 1-3 times a week and talk during school but like I said he hasn’t been talking to me lately he blocked me on snap and not my personal phone I have tryed talking to a conciuler and she said well maybe he doesn’t want to be ur friend or he is leading u on because he ask about me to my friends but when I text him he responds with one word which is weird because he is acting really he has been silent lately at school which is weird because he is an outgoing loud person so I figured out what happen we talked through it then the next day he was being wierd it makes me sad to see him like this I care about him a lot and I know I should get the message and move on but he is my bgf I can’t bare to loose him idk I just felt like I needed to share and ask ur guys opinion thanks for hearing my problem I am looking for advice
Pandamada
Sorry I meant to say BFF
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