My boyfriend asked for space ,am I obliged to tell him I’ll be leaving the state


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    Grace

    My boyfriend asked for space , am I obliged to tell him I’ll be leaving the state for a couple of days ..

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    Kate

    In one word ‘No’.

    If he finds out you’ve left the state it may be the shock he needs to get his act together and stop needing ‘space’ and really commit to you.

    Have fun out of state: its good to get away, enjoy it!

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    Kelly

    No. Please don’t do it.
    Give him his space and you take yours. I know it can hurt.
    He is likely to find out during and afterwards anyway and it will only make him realise that you have a life too and might surprise jolt him into remembering that he wants to be part of it.
    Stay strong, hold your standards and come from a place of love.
    If you love him and he has asked for something, you will want him to have what he needs.
    Love yourself first – it’ll come back or make space for a new. Your only control is self
    love. Give it to yourself xx

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    L

    Isn’t leaving town giving him space?

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    Laurie Hansen

    The man asked for space, therefore you have no obligation toward him. I say give him his space and move on. If it meant to be, it will be. If not, something better is waiting for you.

    I have a rule when a man takes a step back, and that is to take 2 steps further back. Men fall in love when you are not around. If you are always available, they won’t see your value. They need to have space and time away from you in order to miss you. That is a biological fact no matter who the man is. I have a very devoted boyfriend whom I will marry. But even though he has committed himself to me, I am not always available to him. I hang out with my girlfriends and pick up extra nursing work when I can. It drives him nuts when I’m away from him, yet it makes him even more loving and appreciative when he does see me.

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    Ashley

    Definitely do not say anything to him

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    Grace

    Thank you all . I will not say anything to him ..

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