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Monaisretarded.
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Taylor
My boyfriend wants sex very frequently can that be a bad thing like is it possible he will get tired of me or something. I hope you understand what I’m trying to say I’ve always been told to keep it at a minimal. Gives the guy a chance to miss you you know keep him on his toes. Would you agree or am I wrong here?
redcurleysue
I don’t think the frequency of sex is the bigger issue. I think when to have sex in the beginning of a relationship is the issue we normally address here. So how many times you have sex is between you and him and I don’t think that destroys relationships but on the other hand you do have to have more going on than just sex. Does he know you as a person? Are you friends? What is your relationship outside of the bedroom?
If you both are happy then great! Keep going!
Stefanie
Be careful you don’t get a bladder infection. Which can happen with a lot of sex. Otherwise… party on!!!
CalLady
It’s usually called the “honeymoon” period – at the start of a new relationship you can’t keep your hands off each other. Depending on how long you’ve been seeing him it may well decrease in frequency, some guys just have higher sex drives and it never does get less frequent. The real question is the one redcurlysue asked – what’s the relationship like outside of the sex? As long as that’s OK, if you’re dating as well and the relationship is progressing in other ways then enjoy!
Rose
If you see him like everyday maybe he’d get a little bored because of the lack of space for both of you to do your stuff and get to miss each other but too much sex is not bad unless it makes you uncomfortable or you don’t feel like it.
Patty
I used to have sex every time I go to my ex’s house. We gradually started hanging at his house instead of going out and we have been together for 4 months!
The sex was too vanilla for me, but I loved being intimate and him cuddling me. Outside sex, we were nothing short than a sweet couple.
I always thought that having sex with him every weekend didnt leave time to really connect emotionally. Sex made me bond to him but not the other way round I guess men bond emotionally to you in other ways than sex.Mona
Having too much sex with your boyfriend is bad because that’s a sign that he is just using you for your body. Your body is your temple,and it is a precious flower. When you spoil a man with sex he will look elsewhere and get tired of you. Don’t put too many miles on your brand new car,then when you have sex with someone else the sex wouldn’t feel good cause you’re all used up.If he’s you’re husband that’s different and if he’s the the bread winner in the marriage AND he pays ALL of the bills give you an allowance, pay YOUR car note really take care of you and your kids. Then have all of the sex you both can stand.
Raven
crazy town… I tell you!
Tallspicy
This is some crap advise on this thread. Jeeze….
Men do bond through sex, just not at the level women do and men look at physical connection as more important than women do
If you have a boyfriend, have tons of sex, that is great and healthy! It becomes unhealthy when: there is nothing else in your relationship, you give up plans with others to just have sex with him… so assuming he is showing up as a partner and you are keeping up your life, by all means enjoy each other. Men like sensual, sexual women…
Raven
Who ever Mona is, had to go back a year + to troll.
Can we put a moratorium on wackos…!?
Leigh
Sex is medically necessary. If your body does not release the required bodily secretions from sex is when it becomes a problem. Not to mention that if you are that connected to your boyfriend on a physically level your spiritual release is just as important.
Sex is a very powerful experience with the right guy. When you feel like you are one with your guy there is no better feeling than having that connection. Enjoy it, be safe and if you feel he is taking advantage of you then you need to rethink this entire plan.
How long have you 2 been together?
Mona
That’s why men use women and never marry them because the GIRLS like to be easy and let men use them sexually.Lots of girls don’t care about putting a lot of miles on their vagina,why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free.
Crisula
Taylor
I don’t know how long you’ve been together
But if you have already had sex…WTH would keeping it to a minimum achieve?lolol the dirty deed has already been done!!
You have already crossed that line…so if you have a high sex drive like him…go for it.
If you slow down or playing hard to get…you’re sure to lose himHe’ll just think that the two of you are not compatible in bed
L
I’m peeing my depends!
Crisula
or not attracted to him
peggy
Taylor-I wish I had your problem-enjoy! Do not over-think/dissect everything.
Gertrude M.
yall know that this thread was started in 2015…so your basically just talking to yourselves.
peggy
LOL! I wonder if they are still having too much sex!
Crisula
Jeeez…Mona..WTF??
I think you need to get laid
Crisula
I hate when people do that….waste of bloody time
Hannah I
I’ve never thought about vagina miles before…
Raven
Vagina miles… Fly the friendly thighs!
Cozy
It takes two to untwine. There is nothing more enjoyable than to have sex with your partner. Sex is sacred and should always be between two lovers with consent. You two are sharing the same” mileage” together in this relationship. Not to mention, you guys are still young and active so use your remaining energy before it’s too late.When you hit past 50 that’s when you lose your libido and your body changes in so many ways that will discourage you from sex.
Pearl_X
Post is 3 years old!
Monaisretarded
Mona shut up dumbass. so youre basically saying that the man will marry a woman for only sex if thats your interpretation.
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