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Kash
Started talking to a guy. Been connecting pretty well. We have lots of things in common. He seems like a nice chap. Meeting tomorrow. But today he just said that he just had a question in mind but I might get uncomfortable so I asked why would you think it will make uncomfortable. He said it’s not something offensive but you might feel uncomfortable. So I said you ask if I feel uncomfortable I won’t answer. Then he asked me if I was on my periods. Umm wtf I mean is this normal? I think it’s weird. ? Should I meet this guy? I really want to. Apart from this he felt fairly good
AngieBaby
LOL – gross! YES it’s WEIRD! I wouldn’t meet him, I’d just block and move on. That question means he’s looking for sex. He wants to know because if Aunt Flow is visiting it means he won’t try it, most likely.
Raven
STOP, Don’t pass go!
It’s not normal. What normal stranger asks you if you’re on your period?!
Ewa
Say you are and he will find excuse not to meet up with you … waste of your time he is
Maddie
ROFL and I thought I’d heard every strange question before from my dates! Never this one. Either he wants to plan for sex or is someone with zero boundaries (no boundaries is a bad thing!). Super weird question to ask someone you’ve never met. Even if you agreed beforehand that you were specifically meeting up for only sex and not for a date, it would *still* be bizarre to ask because the woman would have already planned around it. No reason for him to ask this question that isn’t weird, so just say, next!
Khadija
He asked you this because he was planning on having sex with you.
I’d cancel the date, that’s not something you ask a woman you’ve never met.
mama
Kash, you’ve walked into a pile of poop and the guy is in the middle of it, holding up a huge red flag — not only holding it up, he’s waving it vigorously back and forth.
One night stands are fine and that sounds like what he’s pursuing, but it doesn’t sound like that’s what you’re after.
Yes, the question is creepy. Try not to text potential dates so much before you meet them. It usually doesn’t turn out well.
But you also said you really want to meet him so my guess is you will regardless of the creep factor. Maybe ask yourself why you are going to anyway, even after getting weirded out by that question.
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